My boyfriend is distancing himself from me and I’m in the middle of the most stressful time of my life with school, the distancing is really making me upset and my OCD is now skyrocketing when I’ve been doing so well for so long, cause idk what I did wrong or if it’s me or what’s up. He’s not one to talk about feelings .. I am just so lost and sad

I’ve been getting sad too since my boyfriends doesn’t like to talk about feelings either :/ I’m sorry you’re going through this

Try and make him talk,if he won't just let him go fr,since tolerating him when he's getting distant is just like driving a dagger to your heart

excuse me? lol I don’t think it’s your place to tell anybody who to be with... just because he isn’t yet comfortable to talk openly about how he’s feeling? he’s in therapy and working on himself just as I am. you’re calling them weak when you don’t even know them. and how could you say that to people who are suffering from relationship OCD? you’re saying that we’re wasting energy on someone who doesn’t want to deal with us? he actually is always there for me when I’m sad, he just doesn’t love to talk about his problems with me and that’s okay, he’ll get there

I’m sorry but that was one of the worst comments I’ve ever read on this app...

Open up,its what being in a relationship is all about,finding that person who you can tell everything, if they've they've tried to make them talk and they ain't talking,that means that they ain't for you,having OCD may be tough,but sharing is what keeps us alive and motivated, you feel you have a lighter burden when you have someone to talk to,not just being all cold to each other,even if you've got relationship OCD,that isn't right,and she's in school too which is stressful, you cannot balance it all when there's pressure everywhere, a slient boyfriend,stressful school,OCD spikes,you gotta let one go and be selfish sis or it will all crumble,leaving you in another mess

u actually have no right to tell people to leave a relationship that you know nothing about your comments are not good lol

Idgaf whether the comments are good or not,I'm just stating facts,whether you like them or not

Lemme tell you there's strength in unity,finding someone who doesn't give AF about your OCD,is there for you when you need them matters,not one who's just unleashing a cold war on you because they don't wanna get involved,or is just pretending to care so that he can have a guaranteed lay then care less afterwards,even if you've got relationship OCD you and you feel that your partner ain't caring is because they ain't caring,get yourself another support system

literally how could u even get all that from me saying he doesn’t like to talk about his feelings??? just because he doesn’t like to talk about his doesn’t mean he doesn’t listen to mine....