I’m wondering if anyone has any insight or tips

The first few weeks and months with someone new is so difficult!! I wish I had advice but this one I do not. Positive vibes 🌹

People can be awkward in small spaces so all you can do is really it is a whoopsie and notice your feelings when it happens, not about if it happens. People fantasize and are creative with sexual as a romantic or connection approach, OCD ruins it trying to make false accusations and impossible conflicting goals to pervert courtship by treating courtship as perverted. People will say they are uncomfortable and usually is something like their insecurities "I don't think I'm good enough for you" or "I'm on my period, doesn't it bother you?" Usually my lovers enjoyed the surprise to wake up to it or a few times a bit cranky because they want to sleep at the moment. It's okay for it to be an accident or intentional testing the water if they want this physical love language or ask them prior how they feel about intimacy now at this stage. Some courtship is more organic without words and some is more openly communication for clarity. What's worth condemning is more in the parameter if there was continued sexual acts after the person address they do not or no longer want to continue. It's a bit more ambiguous when they don't refuse or agree, but it's an easy confrontation of before continuing further asking if they feel comfortable or apologize this was not the intention tonight and if they are okay. And having the preparation of hey they still didn't respond so I'll default to stop and apologize and follow up later if they are OK. Which again is from my confrontation of asking if they were okay was their own insecurities or was so very excited they were speechless which was so sad when it was an accident so they got disappointed when nothing happened. They didn't hold it over my head though for this. Oopsies can be bonding moments and show respect. The times I was judged or called out was when people wanted to hurt me or projecting their sins onto me even if I never did what they accused. Such as the "I was molested by getting kissed during CPR!" I am better at standing up for myself without the intention of defending myself or dismissing others which OCD tries to do all the time. With humans they end up blurting the truth when I'm silently listen to them or facts are required for such accusations (videos or being able to retell the story without changing what was originally reported). OCD is similar too where it starts to settle down after being heard and confused if this was really bad to a neutral stance. Reality isn't really as scary once you actually have data or principles to follow. You and others are resilient and all we can do is our best to communicate.