why are there so many videos on tiktok about girls leaving their boyfriends for girls what the fuccck

or there’s videos that are like “you’re a lesbian/bisexual if.....*lists a bunch of random traits*. like yes i know that they probably don’t about this kind of ocd and im not expecting them to but like it’s so insensitive and triggering.

@empathmind A lesbian dating app has been popping up on my snapchat. Like WHY. It’s like your phone knows. And I’ve been looking at lesbian couple of pages so much to try and do erp. I don’t even know if that’s what I need to be doing. But now that’s the only thing that pops up on my discovery page is a bunch of girl couples. It’s drowning me

@Ocdandme123 ig* not of

May I ask why Haley kiyoko?

that’s great that you are working on ERP! I’ve been a little afraid to watch her videos so props to you. and don’t worry, it’s just your brain. you probably got it because you were anticipating to have it.

@Ocdandme123 And can you explain the whole groinal response thing? Does it mean you like it or want it?!

@Ocdandme123 Because she’s a known lesbian artist (I just found that out)

@Ocdandme123 no, you can literally get a groinal response to anything. it doesn’t mean anything. and like i said earlier, if you are anticipating that you will get one when watching something, you will more than likely get one. but those of us with HOCD can’t help but read into it. like i even have the awareness of this info, but i still freak out when i get a groinal response.

@empathmind Okay cuz idk if I can even really distinguish if I’m having one or if I’ve ever had one. ? ugh

WHAT there’s no way that could be a reason. Young girls don’t just get naked without hesitation in front of other girls I feel like.

@Ocdandme123 I was never comfortable changing infront of anyone ?? that's why I'm so confused with that statement what if it's true

@NocturnalGyal I didn’t start being comfortable with that until like high school. I feel like that’s not a way that anyone could tell if that’s a real reason. I wouldn’t worry about that!

yeah there’s no way that that means you are lesbian. it just means that you weren’t comfortable changing in front of people. there’s so many comments like that all over social media..it drives me crazy. like i saw one that said if you have a crush on harry styles that automatically means you are bisexual. like no?? that means i have a crush on harry styles??

@empathmind How would that make you bisexual?? I don’t get that at all haha and if that’s the case then I am ? cuz I’ve liked him for years haha

@Ocdandme123 lol saaaame. like it doesn’t make sense but those comments are so insensitivite to people with ocd. again, i don’t expect them to know but still.

@empathmind Yes forever can’t wait for the day where none of this stuff gets to me or triggers me and I’m scared I won’t ever feel that day ??

@Ocdandme123 you will. it just takes time and work unfortunately.

@empathmind Very unfortunate :(

@Ocdandme123 you got this ??