Astrology girls help. Me and bf have bad synastry

I can’t stop freaking out. We have mars square mars and mars square Pluto and I genuinely feel like our relationship is doomed. I feel so upset and wish I never came across astrology because everything is so “IF UR SYNASTRY IS BAD UR RELATIONSHIP WILL BE TERRIBKE RUN” I’m so upset and I keep seeing that synastry shows the sign of ur husband and all those things don’t match up with my bf. I feel sick and heartbroken.

Needtobealone

Date posted: Yesterday

Honestly drop all the astrology stuff and I think it would make you stress less in general

RaRaRa

Date posted: Yesterday

What Needtobealone said, dude you need to drop all those astrology stuff because the only thing it will make is worsening your anxiety and spikes, I had to quit it too because a online tarot site told me my partner and I would break up Astrology doesn't rule your way of living or what will happen next, energies changes constantly and what the tarot did said today is not going to be the same tomorrow, tarot and astrology are NOT solid truths, they're just a tool to understand a bit of yourself.

sibeall

Date posted: Yesterday

I looked at me and my bfs astrology stuff too because I'm kinda witchy (tarot cards and stuff) and I've also gotten disappointed before! If you believe in astrology and the signs, remember that not everything is set in stone 100% and any relationship with any astrology sign can work through any struggles or differences if you put ur mind to it 🩷 I'm not necessarily a full believer in astrology but I do know that its definitely something you shouldn't dwell on ₍ᐢ..ᐢ₎♡

helpmeimsosc...

Date posted: Yesterday

@sibeall I know, but I just saw this video of this guy saying this week until October 13 couples will break up especially if partners have been feeling nit picked by their partner…. My bf has told me that all month he’s felt like that and we are legit on verge of breaking up and now I feel like there’s no hope

Wolfram

Date posted: Yesterday

@helpmeimsoscared Whatever you look into, all future possibilities exist and dont exist at the same time. Just work towards the future you want, in the present. Not a fan of people trying to predict the future and projecting it on other people. Follow your heart and it'll lead you to good things

sibeall

Date posted: 19h

@helpmeimsoscared Tarot and astrology will never be able to determine things 100% and if people claim it does they're wrong. It could be a sign with ur relationship, it could not be. Reassuring you will only feed ur OCD even more. Accept the uncertainty 🩷

Breathe in b...

Date posted: 10h

I was once so obsessed with astrology, I could tell you where each planet was at any moment. Everyone I knew treated me as their personal astrologer. However I lived in constant fear trying to predict and understand the future. At first astrology was so accurate that it hooked me in deep. After a while it caused me such a huge pin point of anxiety, my mother and husband encouraged me to quit it. Like it was a drug to me. My anxiety that was tied to it melted away once I cut all ties with it. My astrology with my husband isn’t great, which drove me crazy, because I love him! He is a great guy so I didn’t understand why it said we weren’t compatible. I was putting more faith in the stars than I was into us. We’ve been together 14 years now. All my love to your girl. I’ve been there!

helpmeimsosc...

Date posted: 12m

@Breathe in breathe out Ugh thanks so much for taking the time to write this. I know…. That’s actually how I feel also! Astrology feels like it’s controlling my life, everything I read as well is so negative, always a negative transit or retrograde. Feels like it’s ruining my life

🖤BrokenChaos🖤

Date posted: 24w

Freaking Out

S-so uhm my bf (?) and I have been a little distant and his spotify yesterday was the same where it says that he's my future husband, and today, it was changed. L-like, i-is he g-go-gonna break up with me??? I'm so scared I'm nauseous and I don't want this stress to cause another seizure, but also kinda don't care at the same time because it would ha-have to be my fault??

Brave through

Date posted: 21w

Am i in the wrong relationship or is it rocd?

I am scared the relationship i am in is karmic and i am just scared like its for lessons as it matches with everything that is said..how do i know that it will work and the feeling of it not working with every fight weakening us more than strengthen cause we were never meant to be and should have called it off a while ago after the first few good times cause then we got attached and are dragging it? and i feel it just cant be like intuition wise and if intuition what else can be questioned cause if so and i know breakup not meant to be very different want different things cant change and dragging as i said above and if i know and feel it is not going to work no matter how much we try after fight cause we just are incompatible fundamentally then it is so and idk what we are doing as i feel numb and dissociated and sooner or later will break-up cause not meant to be and is just stretching cause of habit…and none of this is ocd but actually coming up from actual relationship problems so it cant be ocd but the wrong relationship…

Relationship OCD

dee012

Date posted: 17w

tarot card readers help??

I made the mistake of asking the cards if im a p. I tried to read them but then just put them in chat gpt but asked it as if I was doing the reading on someone else. Chat gpt literally said “This does not scream “innocent person with intrusive thoughts.” This looks like a person with disturbing urges who is either ignoring, hiding, or justifying them — which is dangerous. There may be mental health issues involved (7 of Cups, 2 of Pentacles reversed), but the spread shows accountability is being avoided, and harm could be done if things go unchecked” So basically I got bad cards. I am sad and worried that this means something bad about me because my cards are usually right about a lot but have been wrong about very few things but I don’t know how to feel. If anyone is super into this stuff can you help me please?

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