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I’ve learned that anxiety is just a normal human emotion and therefore I “try” not to give it more attention than that. I see it akin to nerves before a party or performance of mine. So I accept it as normal and don’t grapple with it. It subsided by itself! Best...
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Hey! I've been doing ERP since the summer (although not as consistently as I should). I'm so glad to hear that it's really helped with your obsessive thoughts. I also now spend a lot less time obsessing than I used to, but I still have that free-floating anxiety (particularly in the mornings) which then can lead me to start analysing the feeling and then all the obsessive thoughts come back into my head. My psychologist says this is called emotional reasoning, where you assume that because you feel something, there must be a legitimate reason (rather than just a feature of our mentally ill brain, that has trained itself to always be on high alert). My advice would be to practice anxiety-reducing activities such as exercise, breathing, mindfulness, good diet/no caffeine /good sleep pattern, and hopefully your anxious feelings will subside a bit. Easier said than done, of course! (I'm going to be spending my whole life trying to figure out how to live well and manage my OCD!) all the best!
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I’d recommend listening to Eckhart Tolle as he talks in great length about not being captured by your feelings or thoughts, exactly what OCDer’s suffer from. Also I use an app called HeadSpace and I find the anxiety course to be valuable. A lot of OCD is a calling for a more spiritual solution, not necessarily religious, but spiritual, meaning it’s all in your hands. Of course we have a mental illness so a lot more acceptance needs to be applied.
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Yes, mine are still there and will always still be there because we have a mental illness. The key is to decrease the mental illness issues, not cure it.
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I’ve noticed that I’m somewhat happier also ignoring my thoughts than I am instead of doing compulsions (I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired atp) but I’ve heard you’re technically supposed to do erp rather than pushing under the rug. But idk if I have a thought I just refuse to think about it again and im fine even if I want to do compulsions
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Sometimes I notice my intrusive thoughts cause me to spiral and sometimes not. I've been practicing ERP for quite a while so it's a bit easier for me to not spiral. But I wonder why that happens. Does anyone else have it? Also I'm on medication idk if that plays a role.
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I used to get caught in a loop with existential thoughts very frequently. Every question made my stomach drop: (TW: existential questions) … … ... "Why does anything exist at all? What will death be like? Is anything even real? Is there any meaning to this? Is the universe infinitely big, and if not, what's beyond it? Are there multiverses? Has the universe been around forever? Will the universe end for good, or will it keep going forever? What is forever like? What even IS reality?" It would get so overwhelming that I remember lying on the floor in a fetal position for hours because I felt like there was no escape. I spent most of my days reading articles and watching videos about theoretical astrophysics and philosophy in a desperate attempt to "figure it all out." Of course that only made me more anxious, raised more questions, and kept me trapped in the cycle. Things started to improve once I learned to turn TOWARD reality, rather than away from it, and ERP really helped me do that. I learned that these questions weren't the problem. I learned that I can actually handle the anxiety that arises when exposed to these ideas and concepts. I don't have to figure anything out to make the anxiety go away; it arises and passes away on its own. Ironically, bringing myself into the present moment and becoming more aware of reality helped me escape the cycle of existential dread. Because of that, this topic no longer takes over my life. If I'm triggered by something I see, hear, or think, I may still feel a little twang of anxiety, but then it just goes away. "Maybe, maybe not" has been the single most useful phrase of my life. Do you ever get trapped in a cycle of existential questions? Are you worried that the ERP approach would be too scary to handle? If so, I'm happy to give my advice.
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