Guys I neeed someone to talk to like now it's been about 8 days since I lost my virginity but I'm so fucking paranoid about being pregnant and I don't feel pregnant but I just am so convinced and I don't know it's OCD or if I am but I don't think i can deal with this I don't wanna have an abortion and if I do I'm not gonna be able to tell my parents I'll have to do it alone and my life's a mess

Just take a pregnancy test

Buy one from a drug store and take it in their bathroom.

You’re thinking catastrophically. Baby steps. Try and think logically. Take a pregnancy test. 8 days maybe be too soon for accurate results though. Where were you in your cycle? Could you have gotten pregnant? You may not have been ovulating. And take it from an older woman with ocd, don’t ever give yourself a reason to worry. If you’re gonna have sex always use condoms and birth control.

This is OCD talking. Is there a risk, yes, but it is very small given the data points you’ve given. OCD can not tolerate that there is ANY risk. If you got pregnant, you could handle the situation. It would be a hard period of your life, but you would find the resources and pull through. Perhaps you should talk to your partner and talk honestly that having sex is giving you anxiety and that is in no way a reflection of your feelings for him or her. If you can’t communicate with him openly about your fears and needs, your relationship probably needs to be strengthened before adding sex back in.

My Instagram is @flow3rch1ld if you’d like to talk❤️

It was like 1am on the 10th day of my cycle and I don't think the condom broke but I'm still worried

Stress can postpone a pregnancy, diet, illness, some people just have irregular periods. Is this the worst thing to happen in the world, no. Terminal illness, yes. I became pregnant young and kept my child. Do you ? No. You have a choice and you do not have to tell your parents although I’m sure they will love you anyway. Maybe give you tough love but so be it. Atleast you were protected and it’s your first time I’m sure they knew it was bound to happen.

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