Hi everyone. I’m currently struggling with my ROCD. I get really caught up in social media and I have this idea in my head that if my boyfriend likes other girls pictures I feel like he doesn’t actually love me and would rather be with other woman. It’s made me really upset and it’s starting arguments. I don’t know if breaking up with him is irrational for me to do. I don’t know if it’s my ocd or my insecurities. Or if it’s my ocd heightening my insecurities. Either way. I’m really struggling. Every person that has confessed their love for me romantically, I’ve struggled to truly believe them bc my thoughts tell me that they could be lying and they don’t love me as much as they say they do... any advice or opinions?

Ultimatelyumi

Date posted: 5y

It makes me anxious too! My boyfriend tweeted to someone that he was lonely and I COULD NOT stop thinking about how attractive the girl was. I was so jealous on why he would tell HER than me. It makes me bring it up and makes the both of us a mess.

bloop123

Date posted: 5y

:( I feel that

hopeful4healing

Date posted: 5y

What does he say when you guys discuss these thoughts?

bloop123

Date posted: 5y

Well he tells me that it doesn’t mean anything and he understands why it makes me uncomfortable. And tells me he loves me. But in my head I’m like.... why can’t he just unfollow them without me having to ask or be controlling if he knows it makes me uncomfortable?

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