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- 4y ago
- Date posted
- 4y ago
Trigger: my own spiritual beliefs as a Christian: The true good news of the gospel is that we aren’t sent to hell because god gave us Jesus so that nothing can separate us from his love and salvation. I pray that this good news brings you peace whenever you read something about hell.
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- 4y ago
The whole point of this post was not to say people cannot have their own beliefs, or that people cannot talk about religious OCD themes, but that as an LGBT member, to see members of this community continuously talking about homosexuality as a sin (again NOT the people even posting about religious ocd themes, but people in comment sections) it makes it feels like lgbt aren’t as accepted and like I can’t post about my themes or worries because it will be viewed negatively.
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- 4y ago
This app definitely does feel very unwelcoming to me. I see some of these comments and they make me feel angry and hurt.
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- 4y ago
I agree, people with OCD often unintentionally say really hurtful things. The comments are coming from a place of pain, but that doesn't make them ok. There are ways to talk about OCD symptoms without being offensive. I'd encourage you to take advantage of the flagging tool.
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- 4y ago
I wish I could just share pics of my pup, Bowie, in his rainbow bandana, to let you know where we stand on this. I’m living an outwardly heteronormative life, but appearances only go skin deep. Either way, I know I’m not the target group of some of these posts or comments, and I too have felt from uncomfortable to insulted by them. I’m sorry I wasn’t at better ally and scrolled past them without action. I know most initial posts are people dealing with real, annoying, scary, confusing OCD themes, and I’ve ignored the comments that are hurtful that follow those initial posts. If you believe in God, or any higher power, who made this world, then believe that He/She/They made all the colors of the rainbow. Love is love!
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- 4y ago
Thank you. ❤️?
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- 4y ago
Thank you! This response was truly heart warming!
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- 4y ago
this isn't designed for black,white lgbt etc etc. It designed for everyone and your going to see things that. People are in different stages of healing right now. You're going to see things that may trigger you heck some of it triggers me sometimes. Have you tried talking to some of the people on who make the posts?
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- 4y ago
Yeah I definitely get that! Not the point of my post at all! So basically for example (this is just one example I’ve seen it multiple times) but a guy posted about being scared of going to hell for being gay (which I was literally FINE with, not triggering to me one bit) but in the comment section multiple people were talking about how being gay is in fact a sin, and that it’s unacceptable in gods eyes. Again, the point of my post has nothing to do with people who are healing, but rather the people who don’t really consider others on this app who don’t hold the same beliefs as them. Hope hat clears it up
- Date posted
- 4y ago
I posted a community awareness post for you , asking if everyone could be mindful that posting about that is triggering. Hopefully it makes this a safer place little by little.
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- 4y ago
That’s really nice of you. I appreciate it! It’s not so much that it’s even triggering, but it just is bothersome that people don’t consider other demographics when making hateful statements. Thank you again
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 4y ago
You are so loved and I’m sorry you feel this way. I will do everything in my power to help!
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- 4y ago
Thank you so much!!!
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- 4y ago
people share their fears here , we are trying to get help since we are struggling , i dont really understand where is the problem
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- 4y ago
I’ve explained it twice :) not sure where the confusion lies! Again, does not bother me one bit that people have these fears or beliefs but the people in the comment sections of these posts who continually say being gay is a sin, yes, it’s a problem for people who are gay.
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- 4y ago
@kg22! i am muslim and in our religion being homosexual is a sin. as a believer i cant just turn a blind eye to what is forbidden, i cant just twist holy words ...im sorry if this ever offends you
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- 4y ago
@kamilia Right.... so yes.... this is further proving my point.
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- 4y ago
@kg22! some of us are religious here, you too should be understanding dear...
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- 4y ago
@kamilia Which is fine :) I believe in god too. all I’m saying is maybe don’t tell believe they’re going to hell based on your personal beliefs on a public forum app that is for healing. That’s like me telling you you’re going to hell for being Muslim because it doesn’t align with my personal beliefs. (Which I don’t believe, but it’s an example) Beliefs aren’t fact so we really shouldn’t treat them that way on this app because like you said this app is for healing, not certain demographics. This really is not the place for these types of comments. So no, people telling me I’m going to hell isnt necessary, and maybe you should learn to turn a blind eye when people aren’t asking you for your personal opinion on their sexuality (because again, you felt the need to make the comment about YOUR belief of homosexuality being a sin when I did not ask at all). I just think posting things like this based on personal beliefs makes no sense, especially when nobody asked.
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- 4y ago
@kamilia Okay I’m religious and bisexual. I FIRMLY believe that God made me bisexual for a reason. Different theologies exist so yeah I understand what op means when it feels unwelcoming when I myself am a believer, lgbt, and also suffering from ocd.
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- 4y ago
@9jewels Same. I’m bi and have religious ocd, but my beleif that God loves me has never been in doubt, despite so much else being in doubt for me. There are theologians in every religion that can argue in favor of same sex love.
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- 4y ago
@Nikki1809 Thank you for your comment, it feels nice to have people understand where I am coming from
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- 4y ago
@9jewels Same! That’s how I feel too. Thank you for commenting it really feels nice to have people agreeing with me and see where I am coming from
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- 19w ago
I, like so many others, have had ocd for most of my life. I have had many themes throughout my life. I am a mom and have had harm and pocd as well. For me those have been the most difficult and most painful themes. I have seen many people post on this app and they have had some pretty horrible and disturbing intrusive thoughts or false memories and real events ect. much worse than mine and I have never judged anyone because I know how bad ocd and intrusive thoughts can get. I had someone comment on a post I made recently asking me if I even have ocd insinuating it’s not ocd and i’m a actually just a pedo. That upset me so much because anyone who has experienced pocd knows how horrific and disturbing the intrusive thoughts can get and how opposite of who we really are ocd is. Our ocd already makes us doubt ourselves so to have a fellow sufferer of ocd say something like that can be so damaging. So many people are afraid to seek help or post on apps like this out of fear of being judged so we have to be mindful of what we comment. This person, after reading their bio has never experienced that theme and so they have no idea what it’s like or how bad it can get. I am writing this post because I think we need to be more understanding of those who suffer with themes we haven’t and not be judgmental especially if we don’t know them or their ocd story and what they have been through. I beat my ocd and for years I was ocd free until a recent stressful situation in my life and it came back and has been relentless and worse than ever before. I have had so many kind people give me great support on this app and I give support as much as I can when I see posts of others going through similar things as me. Be kind and think before you comment.
- Date posted
- 19w ago
Does anyone else with SO-OCD struggle with imagining a future partner and checking feelings? That’s been my biggest compulsion, and now I feel like I don’t want to end up with a man someday, or that if I do I’ll feel sad or lonely. I’m also sitting here imagining being with women and I can’t tell if I like the sexual thoughts or not anymore, or if my negative reactions mean anything. My face scrunches and I feel anxious and my temperature rises. I’ve been off this app for a couple weeks but still feeling anxiety pretty steadily. I keep imagining the future and getting this feeling and voice that I’m gay and I need to come out to everyone. It’s distressing and I don’t feel like myself anymore
- Date posted
- 12w ago
my ocd has really been taking its toll on me lately. i feel completely unloved by God. i use to feel it, but now i just kinda feel a hole. i talk to Him everyday, and read devotionals. i spend time with Him. i just can’t feel Him. i know a relationship with God isn’t based on feelings, but on faith. i guess my faith is running a bit low. i’m just tired and my thoughts get worse. it’s like a roller coaster.
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