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Apparently most girls can get aroused by anything, I mean, a lot of straight women actually choose to watch lesbian porn because they get off better to that than regular porn, and yet they’re still straight. I can get aroused by literally anything sexual, yet I don’t want to be with anyone but a man because that’s who I see myself with and who I choose as a sexual partner. We can get aroused by literally anything but it doesn’t determine who we desire to be with.
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yh, that must be the reason why my porn viewing is so diverse. i watch anything really
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Perfect exactly like me
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@kayleighetfgv Wait not saying I’m perfect ahahaha I mean your comment it
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Everything you’re feeling, I’ve felt too. I get a response down there but freak out and it feels unnatural when I try to think about it unlike when I fantasise about men. I don’t get a response down there for men really, I tend to get an emotional response, I feel it in my chest and I’m mentally fantasising about it and think “I’d like to be with him”, I think everything we feel is normal, but because we have ocd it makes us overthink it all and dwell on the thoughts and feelings whereas normal people can just brush it off.
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I feel the EXACT same
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Same here, I sometimes get erections when seeing something gay but mentally I hate it. With girls I get erect and I enjoy it mentally.
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yh that’s me but with guys
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I’m not sure this will make you feel better but I have the exact same reactions, before HOCD too
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I have a few friends who do this too
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For the sake of argument there is bi-sexual and bi-romantic
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The thing is, I have this but I really have no desire to do anything with a girl, at least I think
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Or bi curious ?
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@kayleighetfgv There’s so many labels but you don’t need to label yourself at all if you don’t want to, you can just say ‘I’m human and love who I want to love’
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@kayleighetfgv i’m not curious about girls. did you not read what i wrote
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and i’m not romantic about girls either. all i get is a response down there when i see girls online half naked. it never happens in real life though. but on line when i see a guy half naked i don’t really get a response (unless it’s chris evans) but in real life, if i saw a guy shirtless, i’d probably just melt...
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@ocdear I get it completely that’s just like me!!!!!! I know I did read what you wrote but sometimes we crave labels and it was just another option and I apoligise for offending! What I learnt is, what do you desire? Do you WANT to be with a man ? Then you can do that no one is stopping you :) I have a boyfriend so it’s hard for me so I just remember I have a choice
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@ocdear OMG the online versus real life thing. I've always wondered if I get aroused by girls like that because they remind me of myself being naked which usually means its sexy time lmao. I guess what I'm saying is the girls remind me of my own sexuality and feelings about myself. Naked lady-reminds me of myself naked-makes me think of sexy time with my boyfriend.
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@hateocd123 you experience the online a real life thing? i thought i was the only one
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@ocdear Yes
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@hateocd123 Same here. I have a husband too so this is extra spooky lol
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Has anyone experienced where you love woman everything about them, even to the point where you still can get erections watching normal porn, lesbian porn etc. but you find your self still admiring a good looking man. I’ve went through the groinal responses when seeing a man but honestly after watching porn and realizing it’s not about sex it went away. On the other hand even when there’s a male and a female in a picture I can’t stop looking at the male and judging, but the minute they’re naked I’m fine and looking at the woman. I started watching porn at a very young age so I’m wondering do I only sexualize woman and admire the man so in everyday life I don’t see her as beautiful because she’s not naked ? I understand as a straight male I can still think guys are attractive but why do I constantly notice them more than women? I also can admire and see when a girl is beautiful in the face but then if a dude that’s more attractive than me pops up in staring at him. Has anyone experience this?
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Can hocd create mental feelings or things that resemble inclinations Without a physical response?, but such as arousal and mental attraction, for example, I have so ocd and I'm afraid that I might like women.So, in the last period, when I look at photos of girls, especially beautiful ones, I feel something strange or attracted,sometimes their bodies.And I'm confused as to what that might mean, it's like sexual orientation, is this from me or OCD produced by it?'The feeling is like the feeling of discovering new inclinations and this breaks me, I just want to reconcile with myself in any sexual orientation or identity, but I just can't feel comfortable and reconcile with the fact that I may like women or it may happen in the future.And I have these feelings that telling me messing around the girls would be fun, and I feel something like desire, but I never come to terms with this.. I'm going to be 15 years old, I know, I'm not supposed to think like that, I don't have the right to determine who I am now because im young, and I shouldn't continue to dream of marrying a man..My mind keeps reminding me of the fact that I'm a teenager and the likelihood that everything will change is high, but right now, I'm not asking for anything but rest.I want to love myself and reconcile with her.
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hi guys i added to list. i’m freaking out i just need some help. signs of comphet (comphet is when lesbians who don’t know it and just follow norms and believe there straight) ive felt: “I never felt anything when kissing boys and totally thought that was normal… I talk to men, go on dates, but I think it’s to keep my life ‘interesting’ and have something to talk about with friends.” • lack of deep, natural emotional connection • • talking about my boyfriend to other people made me feel “cool”, “worthy”, “interesting” and felt like a way to prove myself • being able to clearly articulate all the reasons I liked a guy crush/my boyfriend (he’s smart, funny, kind, handsome, etc) whereas with a girl crush I can’t exactly put my finger on why I like them but I’m just naturally drawn to them • never missing my exes or feeling heartbroken about them (i would feel sad from being lonely and no longer having that daily routine of having someone to talk to, but didn’t necessarily miss that specific person) • i was always very hesitant about “becoming official” with a guy i would be seeing and would make him wait before deciding to date because i “didn’t know if i really liked him or not” only being aroused by their the man’s desire for me • Thinking I was cooler than other girls because I didn't spend any time thinking about how cute boys were or being "boy-crazy". I was under the impression for a while that I must just be less shallow than other people because I didn't really take looks into account when I had a crush on a boy, I only factored in their personality. chasing the ego boost more than emotional closeness agreed with friends or mom about someone being attractive even if you didn’t feel it—another big flag being bored, ditching serious commitment, chasing the drama again it also feels like i’m acting a lot of the time to make it more romantic cause i cringe When you fantasize about men, it is mostly just enacting a kind of narrative. More focused on movement than features- the men in your fantasies might be faceless or blank-featured or their bodies might symbolize some emotion. you might not even be in the in the fantasy, but instead another faceless woman might be. You might even imagine yourself as the man. The narrative follows the sexual script, but the details are more vague and abstract and might even shift and change throughout the fantasy. i dont care about like what guys looks like. like my sister saw a video of a guy working out and was like got damn omg gotta like that. if i saw that i would prob be like damn to try and prove something to myself but i don’t really understand what i should feel it feels like i relate to so much comphet after i read it on reddit and it doesn’t even make me want to cry and die anymore. it feels like i tolerate men or have done it for attention or because i thought it was going to happen at some point cause it was what was happening around me like sister and friends. i’m scared ill never find someone i want to marry that’s a man it feels like it’s all just comphet and i don’t want to actually be with a man the more my meds work and anxiety lessens the more the fear feels real because i can’t get myself anxious about it anymore. i can about other stuff but not this. i always told myself i don’t chase i attract. maybe thats cause i never wanted a big badly enough. maybe what im missing is a girl what if that ends up feeling more real Straight people don’t need to talk themselves into what’s hot. like during the hocd break i would try and like see what was “hot” and and be like yeah that’s hot. i also i refused to masturbate to women and not think about it because i didn’t want it to prove that i still liked it but i mean idk if that was left over hocd
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