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Apparently most girls can get aroused by anything, I mean, a lot of straight women actually choose to watch lesbian porn because they get off better to that than regular porn, and yet they’re still straight. I can get aroused by literally anything sexual, yet I don’t want to be with anyone but a man because that’s who I see myself with and who I choose as a sexual partner. We can get aroused by literally anything but it doesn’t determine who we desire to be with.
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yh, that must be the reason why my porn viewing is so diverse. i watch anything really
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Perfect exactly like me
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@kayleighetfgv Wait not saying I’m perfect ahahaha I mean your comment it
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Everything you’re feeling, I’ve felt too. I get a response down there but freak out and it feels unnatural when I try to think about it unlike when I fantasise about men. I don’t get a response down there for men really, I tend to get an emotional response, I feel it in my chest and I’m mentally fantasising about it and think “I’d like to be with him”, I think everything we feel is normal, but because we have ocd it makes us overthink it all and dwell on the thoughts and feelings whereas normal people can just brush it off.
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I feel the EXACT same
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Same here, I sometimes get erections when seeing something gay but mentally I hate it. With girls I get erect and I enjoy it mentally.
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yh that’s me but with guys
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I’m not sure this will make you feel better but I have the exact same reactions, before HOCD too
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I have a few friends who do this too
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For the sake of argument there is bi-sexual and bi-romantic
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The thing is, I have this but I really have no desire to do anything with a girl, at least I think
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Or bi curious ?
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@kayleighetfgv There’s so many labels but you don’t need to label yourself at all if you don’t want to, you can just say ‘I’m human and love who I want to love’
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@kayleighetfgv i’m not curious about girls. did you not read what i wrote
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and i’m not romantic about girls either. all i get is a response down there when i see girls online half naked. it never happens in real life though. but on line when i see a guy half naked i don’t really get a response (unless it’s chris evans) but in real life, if i saw a guy shirtless, i’d probably just melt...
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@ocdear I get it completely that’s just like me!!!!!! I know I did read what you wrote but sometimes we crave labels and it was just another option and I apoligise for offending! What I learnt is, what do you desire? Do you WANT to be with a man ? Then you can do that no one is stopping you :) I have a boyfriend so it’s hard for me so I just remember I have a choice
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@ocdear OMG the online versus real life thing. I've always wondered if I get aroused by girls like that because they remind me of myself being naked which usually means its sexy time lmao. I guess what I'm saying is the girls remind me of my own sexuality and feelings about myself. Naked lady-reminds me of myself naked-makes me think of sexy time with my boyfriend.
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@hateocd123 you experience the online a real life thing? i thought i was the only one
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@ocdear Yes
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@hateocd123 Same here. I have a husband too so this is extra spooky lol
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So I’ve talked to a couple of gay people and they all told me the same thing. They ALWAYS knew they liked guys and they have ever gotten aroused by a woman in their life. In fact they told me that they always found a woman’s body disgusting. Looking back in my life I’ve been attracted to girls for as long as I can remember even before puberty. All my fantasies were about girls and I can’t remember a time where I felt the same for a guy (because it never happened). At the end I can still get aroused by women and you can clearly see how much stupid this obsession about being gay is. Gay people can’t get instinctively aroused by a woman and like it. Groinal responses and sensations don’t mean anything because they simply do not bring joy or a feeling of desire. Instead they bring panic. I once got a groinal when “testing my reactions” and I was sitting there crying like my life is over. That’s not how genuine attraction works and no one has woken up one day feeling different and no one has been secretly gay and never noticed it and spent his whole life into women instead.
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Just tired af... Anyone else feels like everything is a lie all the time and there is no "before the OCD I was boy crazy" just the OCD since forever... or denial because of that aspect? Really struggeling with the physical aspect of SOOCD : looking at a women's body and really feeling something and getting turned on and looking at a man's and not feeling anything... I just dont understand! I asked my friends and many of them said they dont feel anything looking at a man's body as well (they're straight) but also looking at a women's doesnt feel like much. I just dont understand ughhhh
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Has anyone experienced where you love woman everything about them, even to the point where you still can get erections watching normal porn, lesbian porn etc. but you find your self still admiring a good looking man. I’ve went through the groinal responses when seeing a man but honestly after watching porn and realizing it’s not about sex it went away. On the other hand even when there’s a male and a female in a picture I can’t stop looking at the male and judging, but the minute they’re naked I’m fine and looking at the woman. I started watching porn at a very young age so I’m wondering do I only sexualize woman and admire the man so in everyday life I don’t see her as beautiful because she’s not naked ? I understand as a straight male I can still think guys are attractive but why do I constantly notice them more than women? I also can admire and see when a girl is beautiful in the face but then if a dude that’s more attractive than me pops up in staring at him. Has anyone experience this?
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