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Give it time. He’s an entirely different person to your ex so how can there be a comparison? I think I felt similar in the first few months of my relationship, then realised I deserved to be treated the way he was treating me. Sometimes the passion and excitement can warp the way we think about someone, so just try and think about the loves being different, not better or worse, and that there’s a REASON you’re with your new boyfriend, not the cheating ex. And get a new therapist if you can! I know that must be really hard but you deserve help :)
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Love is a choice as several people from here told me so. So now it is your choice to stay with your new boyfriend. I believe that each time love is different. You can get through this, all of us are with you.❤️
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I agree with Ruth! Since you were so used to your ex and his controlling ways, it is weird to have a nice and caring boyfriend so it seems “off” to you. I went through the same thing in the beginning of my new relationship because of my ex. Give it time and try not to compare the two (I did a lot before too).
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