I know started developing a fear that anyone in my life is a pedophile. Okay so this is my situation. One time we were at a party. And a guys comes in with his 2 sisters. His sister are both teens one is 19. The other one is younger but I’m not sure. They look around the same age tho. And we were all there. And they guys says something like “yea they’re ugly and that’s why I’m pretty” & my dad says “oh maybe it’s the other way around”. He said it in a certain way. But I don’t remember exactly. I don’t know if he was trying to be “flirty” or just be nice and give a compliment. Or if he was just being playful/joking around. I also know finding someone “pretty/good looking” doesn’t mean they’re attracted to them. But I got really scared. And I keep wondering about things. Like I know sometimes my dad says things to get a reaction from me (or my cousins). I also know that many men find younger women pretty and good looking but will always stick with women their age. But I’m worried what if my dad is a p3do. Should I talk to him about it?

Nachos34

Date posted: 5y

Okay.

Nachos34

Date posted: 5y

@girin Yea I guess. It’s just difficult thinking your dad could be one

Nachos34

Date posted: 5y

@girin Also if I do give in to ask him. What do I do?

Nachos34

Date posted: 5y

@girin Okay. Have you ever experienced something like this?

Nachos34

Date posted: 5y

@girin Gosh thinking people you care about are pedophiles is so hard

Nachos34

Date posted: 5y

@girin You’re the only one that responded to this damn post. But thank you

Nachos34

Date posted: 5y

@girin Same I feel bad.

flowla

Date posted: 5y

I can understand all this. I grew up thinking that anyone could be..that..and because of being exposed to p*rn at 10ish, is where I think my ocd grew. I was seriously scared of everyone. Then I grew up and I feel much better, no longer in that dark room. I still have ocd but I know that Not everyone and not just anyone is...that... I hope everything goes okay for you. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. I understand in some ways of how you might be feeling.

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