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Thank you for breaking the stigma on porn addiction! Some therapists don't take it seriously and that is wrong. If you are having a problem, your therapist should always listen, support you, and help you take steps to recovery. I feel that a lot of people think acknowledging porn addiction is backwards or old fashioned, but it's a serious problem that is very common in our society.
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- 4y
I'm really glad you agree with what I said. You're welcome! I do feel therapists and counselors don't really understand the consequences of porn addictions as it can greatly affect one's mind into viewing things they used to massively differently. Come to think of it, there's a lot of double standards when it comes to sexual activity and it's correlation to mental health. I get that they're all not easy to get into, not at all, but all cases of problems that arise from these labels should be taken seriously.
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- 4y
Thank you, the first couple of times I brought this up to a counselor they told me porn is nothing to be ashamed of. They never really dug any deeper into how yeah, porn can be fun when you're using it for fun but damaging when it becomes your biggest coping mechanism. The use definitely played into my ocd and the therapist I found through this app is a lot more understanding of the connection.
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- 4y
I'm super glad you found a therapist that indeed understood what you were trying to get at. I'm also glad that there's people that can understand where I'm coming from with what I've stated in my post. When pornography or any kind of addiction becomes a coping mechanism, it could possibly lead to threats to your livelihood.
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- 25w
I'm 17 years old I struggle with addiction I have a problem when I masterbate I have intrusive thoughts idk if I think them I'm so scared also back then I know when I was younger I looked at obscure things hentai all that my idk what to do even I feel like I'm a monster or im a bad person I need help I feel so distraught I feel like I can't live life to the fullest anymore even from last year I looked at content that was animated but it had a character in it that was underage I felt so ashamed and felt like a monster I had a compulsion to check it only to find out they are not around my age range idk what to do I probably sound like a freak I'm sorry I'm always trying to replay my memory and try to remember my intention and what I was doing how I come across how I was doing a action yk all that
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- 21w
I am a girl's in my twenties. I got diagnosed with OCD last year. I have a boyfriend, sadly we're long distance right now. I've liked boys all my life. It's very difficult to sustain intimacy in a long distance relationship. Sometimes I have intimate calls with my boyfriend and it's nice. Other times, however, (and I am not proud of it) I do watch porn. I started watching porn when I was 16. I've tried to quit it many times but every couple of weeks I go back to it. And as everyone knows, one of the MANY problems with it is that your brain will always ask for more. More taboo things, more explicit things. I have a daddy kink. I've roleplayed with my boyfriend and watched porn of this kink. Now, the thing is that my brain keeps telling me that I won't orgasm unless I think of little girls being ab*sed. I've never looked for that on the internet, I never want to either. I am under EXTREME DISTRESS, because what my brain tells me feels SO REAL, and it's like my pleasure gets blocked and that contributes to me thinking my brain must be right. It wasn't like this before. I want to go back. I'm scared it will be like this forever now.
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- 18w
TW: ZOCD, porn Before my ZOCD theme started, I would never find myself asking such questions... I'd never go through my past events, every possible things that could have happened, where now I feel guilty off - it didn't really bother me as much. I do remember experiencing some other themes for a shorter amount of time, but they didn't hit me as much as this one. And you know, I wasn't exactly "happy". I was bored, tired 24/7, I wanted my life to be more exciting, I wanted a struggle, which now sounds incredibly ridiculous. And guess what? I've got it. But I didn't want this type of struggle, who the hell would? But now I think of it, it was about to happen at some point as my problems with porn since I was 11, escalated to some really questionable things (always fictional, but it still affected me a lot). The final straw was when I consumed some fucked up fanfiction this April and the immense guilt and shame hit me few days after that. I've started questioning my whole being - why did I do that? Am I what I fear? What's wrong with me? Why was I so desensitised? Am I just now discovering the real me? How can I forgive myself? I've wasted so much time and energy on that, but back then it wasn't even that much of an issue for me. I was so blind. I should have realised that sooner, but late is better than never. I've been doing better mentally than say, three weeks ago but really... I just hate how much porn took away from me. And combined with my morbid curiousity, it led me into some dark places. I can only be glad that I've never saw the real thing.
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