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I look back and think to myself out of all the OCD thoughts and obsessions I’ve had throughout my life I feel like i would rather deal with that then be living in this turmoil /hell. For me my PCOD thoughts started destroying my life 2 weeks ago when I found out I was pregnant. Ever since then these thoughts have made me question my entire life existence, my character, my morals, they’ve plagued my mind to the point where I dont see an end to any of this. Almost like I’ve designated myself to being what my thoughts tell me I am like I’m in denial. Because there are days like today where I don’t panic or break down. I’m anxious overall but not panicking or breaking down like I feel I should be. Having this forum with other people who are going through the same helps. ESP if it’s a woman because I’ve read that while it’s a common OCD subtype it’s usually something males go through.
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And I find for me personally it’s the worst because I can’t talk about it with anyone. They won’t understand and they will think I’m a creep. And I have the groinal responses and it gets so confusing. I spend a big part of my days telling myself I’m not a monster and that I will never hurt anyone no matter what the ocd says. Sucks because I want to have kids but I’m so scared of being a mother because of this shit
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Hugs. So with you. I feel like at one point in my life I wanted kids and now that it’s in my face because of the subtype of the thoughts I don’t want to go through with my pregnancy. The 1st time around my 1st pregnancy (miscarried) was having ocd thoughts but mostly harm ... harming the baby. Also I felt too selfish with these thoughts it’s so concerning and stressful that it truly makes you questions who you are. I’m sorry you don’t have that person to talk to. Honestly if it weren’t for my brother who suffers from similar mental illness and my sister both who are non judge mental ...I would be in such a bad state more than I feel like already am. I am here to talk if you ever feel so distraught and need to talk to anyone.
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it’s so frustrating....i understand exactly what you all mean, i am so sorry you all have to deal with this disorder too because i know how painful and debilitating it can be. mine started when i was younger, i am 19, mine started when i was about 10...i would always think i was going to die or someone i love was going to die and then the theme would change and get progressively worse and now it’s p*do ocd and incest ocd and all these really disturbing and disgusting intrusive thoughts that i panic about daily. i feel so evil all the time and whenever i am just sitting i’ll get a wave of anxiety like i can’t ever relax or be myself...i don’t even know what fully being myself is like because of this disorder. i just want to be normal and tell the ocd to go away and never come back and it actually go away. some days are so much harder than others and some intrusive thoughts i cant even repeat because they’re so horrific and disgusting and they make me so sick. what happened to make me have these intrusive thoughts? i cry so much that even crying is part of my routine and i am so exhausted every day fighting this invisible battle with ocd...i just want peace and feel happy again...i want to be a mom one day too and raise my kids and be a great mom, but my ocd is there and it’s my worst enemy, i feel like i need to hide and lock myself away. :(
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@havinghope I feel like this theme in particular has come and gone in my life but fir some reason it didn’t attach to me or I moved on or shrugged it off. This time with these thoughts and subtype if I had to say what does hell on earth feel like , it’s exactly like how I’m feeling , what we’re dealing with. I’ve never really questioned my character or moral or if I’m good or bad. I’ve been dealing with ocd thoughts for a long long time now. The subtypes have changed but it’s always been there. Today I talked to a psych for meds and she said “ I don’t think you have OCD I think you’re schizo affected or something of that nature. I panicked because I thought “ so I am in denial I am what I’ve said I was this whole time....so I don’t have ocd thoughts then what do I have ... will I just lose my mind and go insane and start committing acts of violence or abuse am I gonna hear voices?” I didn’t really go into depth with (my thoughts or images or actions/fantasies I feel like my brain now conjures to prove to myself either way ) ivecruminatedvto the point where I feel like I almost enjoy bringing these thoughts and torturing myself. I feel like I’ve gotten to such a low point where I’ve normalized these thoughts and such. I’ve been in such stress and distress I’ve questioned whether I have a darkness/evil inside of me. I’ve never been suicidal in my life and these thoughts have touched my core being so much so that I’ve thought about suicide every other day either to to end the pain in my mind/soul or so i don’t burden my family/boyfriend with my anxiety , my insanity. These last 2 weeks I feel like my mind has been dragged to hell. I’ve worried about normalizing my thoughts to the point where I feel like I can or should call the cops to confess something. But then I think if my family. I truly don’t know what I’d do without my brother or sister .
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My problem is I also catastrophize a lot. I worry about tomorrow, the week after like “ if I can’t live with these thoughts today what will tomorrow bring “ like I haven’t even felt peace when I sleep. I think all night, I finally get rest for a few or a couple of hours then I wake up and it’s the feeling of dread all over again like “ great here we go here we are again”
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