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- 4y ago
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- 4y ago
I didn’t read the master doc, but I did look into comphet and it scared me. I related to a few points. I just try to remember that things have multiple reasons behind them. Yes you might relate to a few of the things on there, but it could be for totally different reasons unrelated to sexuality. That’s why I find the master doc flawed because it treats all of these things as definite instead of acknowledging that people can experience similar things for different reasons. Anything that’s use the x=y logic with no room for interpretation is flawed.
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- 4y ago
Thanks for the warning? But tbh, from what I heard, the logic behind that document was a load of bullshit. I haven’t read it, but I’ve heard little bits about it and it’s very flawed. It uses stupid logical falicies. Where it says if you do this , then you are this. Or if you like this, then you are this. That logic is flawed. Even if it sounds logical, it’s not. It’s like logic is like “if you like cookies, then you are a diabetic” it’s stupid and false. But who am I to know? I only heard bits of it, but I can tell you for sure that logic like that is false.
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- 4y ago
Sorry I didn’t mean to put a question mark on “thanks for the warning”
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- 4y ago
Yes ı related some of the points.Its make me feel so depressed 😭
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- 15w ago
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