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- 4y ago
- Date posted
- 4y ago
I didn’t read the master doc, but I did look into comphet and it scared me. I related to a few points. I just try to remember that things have multiple reasons behind them. Yes you might relate to a few of the things on there, but it could be for totally different reasons unrelated to sexuality. That’s why I find the master doc flawed because it treats all of these things as definite instead of acknowledging that people can experience similar things for different reasons. Anything that’s use the x=y logic with no room for interpretation is flawed.
- Date posted
- 4y ago
Thanks for the warning? But tbh, from what I heard, the logic behind that document was a load of bullshit. I haven’t read it, but I’ve heard little bits about it and it’s very flawed. It uses stupid logical falicies. Where it says if you do this , then you are this. Or if you like this, then you are this. That logic is flawed. Even if it sounds logical, it’s not. It’s like logic is like “if you like cookies, then you are a diabetic” it’s stupid and false. But who am I to know? I only heard bits of it, but I can tell you for sure that logic like that is false.
- Date posted
- 4y ago
Sorry I didn’t mean to put a question mark on “thanks for the warning”
- Date posted
- 4y ago
Yes ı related some of the points.Its make me feel so depressed 😭
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- 17w ago
Sorry if this is a bit of an odd post, but I’m wondering if there are any girls out there that have specifically struggled with shame around watching porn? A lot of my real-event ocd stems from watching that kind of content in the past, and for some reason it feels particularly taboo as a woman. As a young teen, I saw some genuinely disturbing things, and I think a lot of that was to do with having unrestricted access to the internet. However, despite lots of people telling me “that’s normal teen curiosity” it just never feels like it applies to me, and that I’m genuinely just a sexual deviant. I think because that kind of content is so graphic and overstimulating it’s really stuck in my brain, and I just wish I could turn back the clock and switch off the computer. I’ve recently been struggling with doing typical ‘girly’ stuff because I feel tainted and gross, and I just want to get back to feeling myself again.
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- 11w ago
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- Date posted
- 10w ago
This is so extremely difficult, i’ve never experienced having thoughts of being a different gender. i’ve always been comfortable being a girl. i’ve always been a girly girl. this all started a couple months ago and it’s increasingly getting worse. i’ve had times where i didn’t like my body but i always thought i could just go to the gym and fix it, never did i think i wanted to be a man. ever since these thoughts started i hate looking at myself in the mirror, i hate looking at my body, i’m aware of my breasts all day everyday, i can’t look at pictures/ videos of myself. from the moment i wake up to the second i go to sleep i have these thoughts. i’m in a panic EVERYDAY. i don’t want to be trans but my thoughts are convincing me i do. i’ve never bat an eye when someone calls me a girl but now it’s like i’m aware of it which i hate. i hate that i’m having these thoughts & it’s convincing me that i want them & that i have to just come out and change. i want to be able to go back to being comfortable as a girl. this has left me feeling so hopeless and depressed, i can’t help but cry every day. has anyone else felt like their whole world was turned upside down?
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