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You should really talk with a therapist or call the suicide hotline
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I struggle with really intrusive thoughts, like I'll think that someone is really mad at me for whatever reason so I will text and ring them until I know for sure everything is fine. It's driving everyone crazy and I am exhausted. I need some help on how to change the way I think maybe or a technique I can use to make the thoughts pass....
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How do yup deal with anxiety and OCD when it gets really bad? Like during stressful times.
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I really don't know to be honest. I cry alot. I shout at my ex alot and then will call back over apologising. It's a vicious circle really. I get a thought in my head and have to act on it straight away. That's why I downloaded this app in the hope that when this happens I could speak to someone to help it pass so I don't keep calling or texting. I'm driving myself crazy. I have plenty to live for but the thoughts in my head make me want to finish it so I am at peace
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I have a hard time letting go of the things I’ve done to others. I feel such guilt over it all. I then go thru OCD thoughts of punishing myself.
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I’m trying to learn how to deal with the guilt. It sounds like you have that same guilt theme issue
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It's horrendous. Why can't I just let go. It's like I'm still clinging on to him even tho he doesn't want me.
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I hear you. I was stuck on someone and thought they were perfect. I still can’t get over them years later. I realized that some people are not a good fit. You cannot make a relationship work. It comes naturally. It is not you. It’s just not the right person. I married someone who deals with my ocd and helps me. He doesn’t try to make me feel like I’m a burden or that it is inconvenient.
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If he couldn’t deal with the ocd. Then he is not good for you.
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You need people to recognize that a mental issue is just as disabling and painful as physical
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The crazy thing is I know I'm better off without him he controlled every aspect of my life there was alot of emotional abuse towards me. But now I'm left still loving him even tho I know he's no good for me... I'm going out of my mind
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Just repeat. I deserve better.
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It is tough. But OCD makes you believe that you are not amazing. That is why you are calling and apologizing. You put everyone on a pedestal. How many faults did your ex have that you brushed off or he did and you forgave him?
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Can you not forgive yourself?
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I felt like with my OCD, I gave so many passes and accepted to be treated like crap by so many people. I realized I purposefully dated people and forgave them for their faults because they ‘put up’ with me and my OCD.
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That is exactly what I did. I thought well they put up with my bullshit I've got to put up with theirs
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See this is the thing I know I did nothing wrong, he always did things to hurt me but I literally worshipped the ground he walked on even through the cheating etc.. I was stupid I know
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You cannot help that you have OCD. This is something we don’t want, but we have it. You have to find someone who accepts this part of you.
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Exactly. I know all of these things but still it takes over me and my mind and my thoughts. I hate it I really do. It makes me very suicidal
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You have to rationalize it now. That he was not good for you. That is the best way.
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