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I was just in my first relationship too. And first guy to be intimate with. I don’t know if it helps bc I also have hocd but I was the same way.I never had issues initiating kissing/making out really. But It took a year for me to finally start initiating in the bedroom and even then I had the same anxiety and fears as you’re explaining
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Yeah I don’t have a problem intitiating kissing or making out, but anything outside that is difficult for me because I’ve never done it before. It’s good to know I’m not alone 😢
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@Pinklotus No i think it’s so scary; I’m so embarrassed to make a mistake or do something wrong. Luckily I got to the point were I could laugh if I did something wrong but it takes a lot bc id laugh in the moment but then an hour or 2 after start ruminating and flipping out about it
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@Justmesadly I feel the exact same way!!! I also sometimes compare myself to people he’s been with in the past and so I put pressure on myself to do “good” but afterward like right now I ruminate on it
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@Pinklotus Yep! Exactly!
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