ewaedb
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AnonymousAnonymous
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Exactly lol gay people don’t think about being gay 24/7
AnonymousAnonymous
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like think about it, before ocd messed you up we’re you thinking about relationships 24/7
JustmesadlyJustmesadly
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This doesn’t make much sense to say because yes you don’t have to act on your true sexuality but if you’re in a straight relationship and you’re gay then you’re gonna be miserable eventually and you’re hurting the person you’re dating as well by lying to them... Which is one of the main reasons why us with SOOCD are anxious, that we are living a lie. So this should show you why it’s SOOCD. As anonymous said people who are gay don’t think about being gay 24/7.
JustmesadlyJustmesadly
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@Ioana9 You have Rocd and not SOOCD ? Also in case you thought I was responding to you, I was responding to the orignal poster 💜 but if you’re bi and happy with your boyfriend thats so great and I’m so happy for you! I hope you don’t get SOOCD either bc it sucks ! Thank you! I’m so thankful for this app
JustmesadlyJustmesadly
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@Ioana9 Yes we are in this together
ewaedbewaedb
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That's why I said bi
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Anonymous123
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I've always found women pretty and admired them since I was younger, never wanted to be with them or anything. I always pictured having a boyfriend and my crushes were always boys. I have a boyfriend now but because this has happened I feel nothing towards him or any men. To be honest I'm so exhausted I don't feel much at all, there was so much anxiety at the start and now there is none. Does that mean I have accepted the thoughts. My mind keeps going you were suppressed all these years but I do find women pretty so that's what's making it worse. Am I just in denial and being delusional? I never doubted my sexuality before this I always considered myself to be straight but I feels like my mind has been twisted and can't remember any attraction to guys but can remember thinking girls are pretty? Does this mean it's all real? I don't know anymore
Anonymousesti
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SOOCD
I feel like evryone is saying yeah the worst part is not knowing what my actual sexuality is however for me its like not that but more about being another sexuality and not being able to be with my bf because "my body and my truth are stronger then my will to stay with my bf". I also have the fear of SOOCD ending up being true or for example and more specifically liking it and never going back to men... I dont know if anyone relates to that, let me know!
geodrimilis
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How to counter hocd (in my opinion)
Think logically. Literally. Take me as an example. I have hocd and my obsession is “what if I’m gay”. I’ve liked girls my whole life, I can still get aroused by them and I can’t get the same instinctive reaction from a guy. So I can’t be gay. Sometimes ocd will go to something else once you prove it wrong. Maybe like. “What if I’m bi” again I can only get aroused by girls. Sometimes when I’m not thinking about it I can even get aroused when sitting next to a girl or when I’m sitting next to one or even when I’m touching one in a non sexual way. Something that never happens or has happened with a guy in my life. Don’t start panicking. Just “realise” who you are and who you’ve been.
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