Should you leave a good guy that you've been with longterm who treats you right, are able to be 100% comfortable with him, talk to him about anything, take care of eachother when were sad. and I tell him good and bad news right when I find out, just cause you don't have feelings? I've been with him for 6 years.

i saw somewhere from an ROCD counselor that love isn’t always just a feeling, it’s also a choice, and this advice really helps me when i suddenly get scared that i don’t love my boyfriend. because i know i truly do love him so much but when i don’t feel it 100% sometimes it doesn’t mean i don’t love him anymore

I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and trust me, as an ROCD sufferer, you do not need feelings to stay in a relationship. If I went off feelings, my girlfriend and I would have broken up so long ago. It’s the fact that I choose her. Because no matter what, feelings come and go, and you don’t get to control them, but you do get to control who you love. And that’s your choice. Stay well my friend

I don’t have ROCD but following what I’ve experienced from SO OCD, OCD can make you lose feelings. It can make you feel like you’ve lost attraction and feelings to people you want to be with. I highly suggest you try to overcome your ROCD first. If you can get better, it becomes easier to know what is real and what is fake. Then you can make a decision. I just don’t want you to make a decision you’ll regret because of OCD brain.

I see you are looking for reassurance! I commented on you previous post last night about your relationship. I think the best thing to do is ask for advice from your family and friends or a therapist if you have one. Dont look for answers from people online, especially from reddit posts, because those people dont totally understand or know your relationship. Especially if this is your ROCD talking, it's best to not seek reassurance on this app! 💖

Yeah if u don't have any feelings for him what kind of life is that?

But really think it through love