18+ Okay now I’m really worried that I may be a p bc I’m 18 and one of my friends that I’ve know awhile he asked I wanted to hook up and I was like really hesitant and bc he’s my friend but then he like convinced me so I said okay..yeah I guess..? But I was still very unsure and I didn’t want to like make him feel bad and bc I felt pressured that I should be like having sex and I honestly like wasnt thinking that one year was bad, until I told my mom about it and she asked how old he was I and said 17 and then she was telling me that he’s still a minor n stuff and then I thought one year wasn’t bad and I wasn’t like thinking any bad things and I was still unsure in fact like I think it should’ve waited and bc I still believe in marriage before sex n stuff but, my mom was telling me that if he ever wanted to like report or something and since I’m 18 and he’s 17 i could get in trouble n stuff and now that has made me worried 🥲 but I’m glad I told her and I didn’t have an urge to like do anything to him bc I was still very hesitant and unsure and now I’m worried that what if like I wanted to do it even tho I didn’t know at all or what if that means I do it but with a different person even though I know it’s wrong now and like I understand and literally wouldn’t want to because it’s weird :( I don’t know anymore ...

Lol my dots? I do it every time I text anyone... :)

Yes lol ... 😆

I can't answer that for you.. although I think my answer will be the same as what you replied earlier... :)

@Anonymous I can’t tell which answer is was 😭😭 in there but

@kathernyr I can't reassure you lol... you replied earlier .. don't let your ocd doubt get you.. sit with your intrusion... have you ever had therapy?

@Anonymous No 😭

@kathernyr Rr ok. Why not?

@Anonymous Too scared

@kathernyr I just starting erp through nocd

@Anonymous How is it? Idk I’m just scared to tell my thoughts ..

@kathernyr No never be scared to tell an ocd therapist.. they hear all sorts and know it is ocd.. there is nothing they have not heard.

@Anonymous I know 😭but I just feel so like idk weird like what if it’s not ocd and then they like judge me or idk

@kathernyr But that is what ocd does.. if it feels like ocd it probably is.

No don't be scared. This is the way to respond to people's questions.. as we are not allowed to reassure you.. the best way to reply to someone when they are in doubt or in a ritual is to say back.. well, what do you think. How would you answer that question ( your question above)

@Anonymous Well I don’t know really ... I’ve always been used to people saying that if it’s one year then it’s not bad but I also deep down didn’t want to do it with him because I value to be in a relationship first and get to know them.. and I just felt I guess teenage pressure.? That I had to soo yeah that’s what I think

Unfortunately we have an anxiety disorder so we going to feel anxiety

@Anonymous 😭🥲 :( so now what since reassuring is bad?😭😭

@kathernyr I believe your answer to your own question above. Was logical, compassionate... you answered your own question ..

@kathernyr It is your ocd trying to trick you. Don't let it.. say.. no ty ocd and try get on with something else... I know it easier said than done but this is the best way... don't get caught in the why and what's.