So I’ve been a bit stressed on top of my regular ocd (Hocd, mild rocd). My libido seems to just be worse than ever and I never want to do anything intimate with my partner and I’m not doing it as avoidance either. It’s just that I’m not in the mood AT ALL. It makes me super super sad, and feel very sorry for my boyfriend. Then by not being in the mood/wanting to have sex I then get intrusive thoughts about my thoughts “all being true.” That’s the least of my worries, but how do I just get over this? Like I said I’m not doing it as a form of avoidance for ocd, it’s just that I have no libido and wish I did so I can enjoy time with my bf. Any advice?? I miss wanting to be intimate with him.

Littleducky5

Date posted: 4y

I am in the same boat!! And it is really making my HOCD flare up. I feel so depressed and feel like I'm in denial of my true feelings and can't stop checking to see if I'd like it better with a girl! Even though I've never liked a girl or been attracted in real life 😞. If my libido were better I feel like it would help immensely.

Justmesadly

Date posted: 4y

Do it anyway! The more you do it the more you want it! I swear it works, I was the same way this time last year

Corie

Date posted: 4y

Yes! I was planning on doing it anyway

Justmesadly

Date posted: 4y

@Corie If it doesn’t get better, I also researched foods that increase it and I swear all of it helped bc it went from like once a week to everyday

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