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- 6y ago
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First off congratulations on your new baby ❤️❤️ My OCD got soooo bad end of my first pregnancy and his few months of life. It felt like it robbed the joys of being a first time mom. Therapy has been a saving Grace for me I am not sure what I would do with out it. Plus on medications. But if those aren't options for you try to find things that help ground you and make you feel like your in control again. Coloring, listening to music, reading a book. Something small you do for just you, it's really easy to loose you and focus on the new babes. But without you being 100% for your self you can't be 100% for her.
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- 6y ago
Hey Mij! Sending lots of virtual support your way! First, know that you are not alone. While I have not had a child myself, I am pretty well versed in the OCD lit, and let me tell you, it is not uncommon to have OCD spike during/after pregnancy? As you try to figure out provider options per others helpful suggestions above, have you picked up any books on the subject? Lee Baer's "Getting Control" and Jonathan Grayson's "Freedom from OCD" are a great place to start! I always advocate for seeing someone specialized in OCD treatment but it can be tricky to find someone. Books like these can be super helpful and provide some guidance/support in the meantime! Wishing you the best as you figure things out!
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- 6y ago
I agree w the above post re: books and info about ocd - knowledge is power! Also, have you looked at healthcare.gov re: options for insurance? (Losing your current insurance might mean you’re eligible for another kind of coverage) Some areas have support groups which are free if you can’t afford one on one therapy. Also, your Ob/Gyn might know of resources too. Some free things you can try now: reduce or eliminate caffeine from your diet, exercise daily, write in a journal, and try meditation (lots of free apps that will guide you thru that if you haven’t done it before). Good luck & I hope you & baby are healthy & well
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- 6y ago
Yes I am @Aela
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- 6y ago
I had it while I was pregnant and it just got cancelled as I was trying to find a specialist. I’m not eligible because I live with my mom now.
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Hi I kept seeing this app on repeat on TikTok over and over and I thought I give it a shot. I have never been diagnosed with OCD but I know that I have it. I’m a young adult and I found out the first time I had OCD was watching lelelons truth video? I was 14 at the time She had to resist sitting back down in a chair after her having sat down she started having a mental break down when she was told to resist. That’s when I knew. It started with myself going up and down a staircase twice buckling unbuckling my seat belt everytime I’m in the car ect I have always been super anti social but trying my best I can socialize but my mind wants to make it sexual with family and friends ughhhh I hate it because that’s not me when I graduated thoughts of hurting my loved ones corrupted my mind I broke down outside of church one time asking if this was really me or not i question if I’m a good enough friend or person in this world to begin with thinking everyone is judging me so so close how can I make this situation better did I do something wrong I struggle with depression as well not to bad but it’s there I come from a loving family but broken as well i believe in god and my OCD makes me go often he’s not real that stuff isn’t real no one is there to save you the list goes on. Anyway I struggle a lot and I really hope that this will help me because I feel extremely hopeless. Lucky for me I do have the ability to seek therapy and I am excited. The only person I ever tell my thoughts to is God no other human has heard so I’m really really hoping this helps me out if your reading this thank you it means a lot because this is my first time ever admitting all this it’s a lot to take in I know and I hope you are ok and that you have a great night and know that we got this
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- 12w ago
Medication for OCD? Hello all, 19 male here, this seems like a cool community that isn’t nearly as triggering as reddit. I have pretty severe bouts of existential thinking or fear of going crazy ( psychosis ) after some pretty heavy mushroom trips a few years ago, I know logically I should be fine but I do know what it’s like to lose it and it’s scary. Currently I deal with relationship focused OCD, it’s all day from before I even open my eyes. I want things to work out with my girlfriend badly. Also I can come close to a panic attack sometimes which perpetuates everything. Anyway, I mention the fear of going crazy because the way my anxiety/derealization makes me feel is that I’m not mentally stable cause I feel out of it or unreal. I saw that a lot of anxiety and depression medication can cause psychosis and I feel like I could use some help in getting ahead of my OCD because the compulsions are had not to give into when I’m in such distress/not knowing. Plus overall I just feel like I have no idea how I feel about close to anything. Anyone relate about that ?
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