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Yes I've feared and obsessed about depression for very long. Then as I would obsess about it I'd even start feeling the symptoms of it but it turns out that those are the same symptoms of anxiety. I have suicide OCD and I think that's where my fear of depression stemmed from. I fear anything that might lead me to feeling unhappy and ultimately fear killing my self. I fear other mental illnesses like bipolar as well. I fear the same thoughts that you have "nothing makes sense, nothing makes me happy, like has no purpose, life has no meaning" I know they're not true. And when I'm not thinking these thoughts I'm back to my regular happy self.
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@j289l I have had the same exact thoughts and also have SOCD. What we experience is super similar and also super scary because it feels real. Every time I say something like “what if life never gets better or ill never be truly happy again” I also get worried about the SOCD, it’s all connected. Your ocd wants you to believe everything it’s saying completely
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Hi j289l, It’s me again. Everything you describe is exactly what I have been going through for about 6 months. Mine began with a very strong fear of killing my family after I saw a story on the news. I have been experiencing intrusive thoughts for about a year prior in regards to harming my little girl. This has now morphed into a fear of becoming depressed and killing my self, as my profession has a history of mental health disorders and suicide. I am struggling with the thoughts/questions of what is the meaning of life, is there meaning to life, am I happy. I had been doing pretty good for about a week and heard a story of someone whose son killed himself and I feel like I’m back to square 1. I also experience feelings that cause extreme anxiety, feelings of this sucks just give in. And I scares the hell out of me. Are you currently in treatment or on meds? If you don’t mind sharing of course.
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My harm OCD actually revolved around hurting my family for many years while I was younger before I even knew what OCD was and before I was diagnosed. It evolved into SOCD too. I saw a therapist for 4 months every week and now I see her once a month and it really helped. She specializes in OCD. I have never taken medication. The therapy really helped. We practiced ERP. For example I read articles on depression and suicide and don't argue with my thoughts. It has been tough but I've been able to manage. I still get the thoughts especially when I'm stressed. I think stress really triggers OCD for everyone.
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Oh Thank you! - I dont have a depression though, But Im a afraid of it and these thoughts first entered my mind today, and I thought it was a little wierd!
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I understand! Don't worry about it. If you don't have it now, SMILE! ? your doing amazing Mias ?
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I'm really afraid to say that and the reason might be because of how depression is described to us. And at this point I dont know what is depression. I don't think feeling down is depression. Or sometimes feeling like things doesnt go as you want and you dont know what to do. Maybe it is, I can't tell it cause if i say im depressed in these situations it makes the situation worse, I feel like I put more weight on me. I know its common for depressed people to be ashamed that they are depressed and that might be my case too but as I said, many times I feel like I shouldnt call it depression, just feeling low or things has been stressful and it made me mentaly tired. I imagine depression as a different thing, i believe i was depressed before,because of ocd and i wasnt able to deal with my emotions, and sometimes I spin about that too cause again depression is presented differently in social media and by therapists too. So everytime i feel down i spin about if im depressed, afraid of depression cause I see it as a really bad thing.
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Whenever anyone starts to feel like their thoughts are less triggering or they feel a moment of happiness/ relief OCD tells you that you want the thoughts back or you actually like having the thoughts and maybe thats just the person I really am? I feel like im going insane😢
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I usually would say I’ve never been depressed , but recently in my life since my anxiety/ocd has been so bad and having relationship problems I’m feeling kinda sad / stressed. I keep getting scared of being depressed I keep having intrusive thoughts of “ you’d would be better off if you weren’t living” “ I don’t wanna live if it’s like this” and it’s just scaring me 😞
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