I’m so scared I’m actually checking out girls on TikTok or in real life. It really feels like I do. I’m trying really hard to just let these thoughts go but it’s been so long with them I feel terrible. I love my boyfriend and I don’t want to lose him or make him unhappy and this just makes it so much worse. Does anyone have any tips
finding other people attractive is a natural human instinct. as long as it isn’t causing distress to your or your boyfriend, i’d say it’s very normal and try to not beat yourself up too bad over it.