tw for (perhaps) maybe new hocd thought anyone else when imagining scenarios with women, it feels like my brain immediately turns me into a guy in the scenario and the girl is me (?). like i was trying to imagine a girl laying down on my chest and then suddenly all i can think of is that i am a guy and not me in the scenario and the girl is maybe me is that some kind of heteronormativity? like now i am freaking out because i can't imagine normal lesbian scenarios to check because what if it's heteronormativity??