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That’s a good question: From my experience, If I jumped into the compulsive need to find an answer, I never found one because the fuel behind finding the answer is an anxiety fueled need to answer the question. Than rather than getting a satisfactory answer, your mind comes up with more questions, and is still fueld by fear, and it creates and existential loop. Calming aporoaching the answers in a mind not filled with anxiety is the way to gather true information and true answers, but getting to that point is difficult.
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I see. I've noticed that when I do my compulsions too much I start to backfire more often. For instance, when I test my sexuality after a streak of days of not testing I usually get the answer that I want. But after a while of constantly testing it usually backfires after a certain point. And after continuously testing, It begins to backfire more
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OK, this might sound really dumb, but when you guys get intrusive thoughts, do they just come once and then go away? I’ve heard that repeatedly thinking about an intrusive thought is considered ‘checking,’ but it doesn’t feel like I have any control over how many times it comes up in my head. It’s not like I’m trying to check anything—it just keeps showing up, almost like it’s terrorizing me every time. I can’t seem to stop it from looping, stop remembering it, or prevent it from coming up. Every time it does, I feel horrified, and I already know it’s going to horrify me. I don’t think I’m actively trying to see if my feelings have changed, so is this still considered checking? How do other people get an intrusive thought and just move on? Doesn’t it pop up a million times for them too? I always thought that was normal, but now I’m hearing this could be a compulsion, and I feel really confused, scared, and lost. Is this why my OCD feels so extreme? Because I really don’t feel like I can control how many times the thought pops up.
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should i be doing erp instead of repeating again and again "none of that shits real. none of that shits real. none of that shits real" ? i can’t tell if it makes it better or not
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I've been told a lot that in order to get better, we need to tolerate uncertainty, which yea I get that and I'm trying every day more and more to reach that point!! But I've also been told that we need to tolerate uncertainty AND "our worst fears becoming true". Like how does that work, especially with POCD, OCD about a///ault, SA and all of that? Like that is really difficult for me and I don't really understand how I'm supposed to just shrug stuff like that off
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