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bigblue bigblue
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do you *choose* to love him? love isn’t always a feeling, it’s an action that you choose to do. yes, feelings are a good sign that you do love them but ultimately it’s something you wake up everyday and choose to do. don’t get caught up in “feelings” because feelings aren’t always reliable (which we all know)
Myke GMyke G
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My gosh sir I was going to comment the same thing you absolutely nailed it
bigblue bigblue
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@NOCD Advocate - Mike i’m a girl but great!!😂
Myke GMyke G
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@bigblue Sorry your avatar says otherwise 😅
L💖L💖
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I don't know why its so hard for my brain to accept that feelings aren't everything in a relationship and that being calm and comfortable is a good thing
cheyrascheyras
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Expecting any type of feelings at any given moment is a recipe for huge anxiety with OCD. Expecting and analyzing make it almost impossible to feel any spontaneous positive emotions when they would have otherwise popped in.
AnonymousAnonymous
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I wish I was calm and comfortable. You are very lucky to have that as I just feel constantly worries and sick with doubt and dread
L💖L💖
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Well I am feeling constant doubt and worries due to not having the loving feelings
emilym67emilym67
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This is extremely normal for all long term relationships!
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