18 + please i’ve written this a few times and deleted it. i’m worried I might have had some inappropriate fantasies about a girl i didn’t know was younger than me. i’m 19 and she’s still in high school (17 or maybe even 16) i definitely had some intrusions about her but don’t remember if i reacted by touching myself or if i avoided it. pretty sure i avoided it but don’t remember (definitely did not “climax” to them) i’m 19 and know that’s not a huge difference (at least if she’s 17 and not 16) but i still feel like a creep. i didn’t send her anything tho

fair to mention i knew her form an online learning thing for job (she works at a different location or the same company) and i didn’t know she was 17 until after

You didn’t know her age. It’s okay, try not to ruminate about it. You need to let it go

This might help. My grandmother was 12 when she got married. So id say your ok. I actually fooled around with someone who was younger than me and this was 20 years ago. I cant remember her age and my mind tells me she wasnt of age but i no she was close if not older than 17 at the time. I think i was 19. My point is ocd will cause u to doubt everything. Hope my story helps.