Now my partner is saying he’s scared I’ll lose feelings for him and I’m scared he’s right. I don’t want to, I just want to be with him. I feel like such a liar and a fraud. This is torture

Fruitpunch

Date posted: 4y

I think an important thing to keep in mind is that none of this is your fault. You aren’t lying, and you aren’t fake. You just have something that’s taking over your mind against your will and it isn’t your fault it’s there. If you try to live with the uncertainty and let things happen the way they happen, sometimes that can be the best medicine!

PinkLotus

Date posted: 4y

Thank you ❤️

Anonymous

Date posted: 4y

Remind yourself. This is my OCD. Your OCD is literally a malfunction in your brain that you cants control. Maybe try a session together in therapy? It might help.

PinkLotus

Date posted: 4y

Thank you, I’ll see what we can do

Justmesadly

Date posted: 4y

Stop telling him your intrusive thoughts. You don’t need to destroy your partner just bc your ocd isn’t controlled ! That’s not at all fair to him

PinkLotus

Date posted: 4y

He said he felt like I wasn’t attracted to him sometimes so I had to explain to him that it’s not that but my anxiety.

Justmesadly

Date posted: 4y

@PinkLotus You don’t need to go into details. You can say my ocd is making me off. I still love you and I still think you’re hot. Period

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