so there's one of my ex best friends whom my mind always focuses on because it tells me i used to have a crush on her. but then it feels like i have accepted this and it doesn't make me panic anymore. like i just acknowledge it and move on??? we always say we have to accept the thoughts and move on but it feels like i have accepted it as a truth or a fact and i don't panic about it being "true". like why? i want my panic back honestly at least i knew i didn't want it. like now it feels like i am perfectly fine with the "fact" that i had a crush on her