zma
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282d ago
I definitely feel this, I’ve been here so many times :( when a little piece of the breakup doesn’t “make sense” to me it’s REALLY hard for me to let go of it and keep going over it and over it again. Something to remember is that no matter how much you think about it, there’s no new information. You still can’t ever 100% understand what went on in another human being’s head and that’s just a truth we have to accept in life, and no amount of ruminating will change that. I’m sorry you’re going through this :( the best thing is to just try to build up new things to focus on in your life like hobbies and friendships.