Is it actually possible that I went for 21 years without realizing Im gay? I always had a dream of having gf, falling in love and being in a relationship, but I never had any female friends let alone a gf. I barely spoke to girls even when they gave me attention, like I didnt know what to say to them. Ive been sexually attracted to women and still am so how is it possible I dont feel any romantic attraction to them? Im so worried

flowerboy

Date posted: 4y

i kinda feel the same way about everyone rn. i feel like since i don’t have a bunch of dating experience i don’t really know what i’m supposed to feel.

Imaan7

Date posted: 4y

Yes! I know

flowerboy

Date posted: 4y

@Imaan7 the other problem is that i lit rally just don’t get in any relationships bc i second guess myself constantly ab whether i actually like someone or not so nothing ever happens

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