Omg I have had this same thought so many times & every time it makes me spiel / gets me back into the loop.
Best advice I was given was to say “maybe I do just like the thought of men” or “sure I only like the thought of men” just agree with it / act like it doesn’t matter - I know it’s hard!!
I hate this thought…I feel like because I have a tendency to fall in love with idea of different guys that it means I’m actually a lesbian since I’ve never loved the “real” version of the guy
I feel the exact same way. I only “fall in love” with guys that I don’t know and when I first get to know them I get the icks right away and what to him to get out of my life. I get kind of annoyed at them sometimes, I don’t know if I just have a weird attachment style or if I am really lesbian.
@🥰 It’s so frustrating because none of the guys I’ve been head over heels for have ever returned the affection, so I don’t even know if what my reaction would be. I just know that I don’t like when guys really pursue me and like me; I like it to be more mutual.
@lennygirl SAME. I was head over heels in love with a guy that didn’t want anything to do with me haha, and I don’t know if that’s why it got so intense for me. it’s so scary, I am scared I never will fall in love with a guy that I really know.
@🥰 Me too 😭 it feels like I know I won’t.