Now I feel like I won't ever like guys again, and a thought came across "what if you just like the idea of men" which was really stupid thought but it got me thinking more. The lack of attraction is making me think I've been in denial. Even though I don't feel attraction to guys I still don't like the thought of being with a girl but my mind makes up other shit

Omg I have had this same thought so many times & every time it makes me spiel / gets me back into the loop.

Best advice I was given was to say “maybe I do just like the thought of men” or “sure I only like the thought of men” just agree with it / act like it doesn’t matter - I know it’s hard!!

I hate this thought…I feel like because I have a tendency to fall in love with idea of different guys that it means I’m actually a lesbian since I’ve never loved the “real” version of the guy

I feel the exact same way. I only “fall in love” with guys that I don’t know and when I first get to know them I get the icks right away and what to him to get out of my life. I get kind of annoyed at them sometimes, I don’t know if I just have a weird attachment style or if I am really lesbian.

@🥰 It’s so frustrating because none of the guys I’ve been head over heels for have ever returned the affection, so I don’t even know if what my reaction would be. I just know that I don’t like when guys really pursue me and like me; I like it to be more mutual.

@lennygirl SAME. I was head over heels in love with a guy that didn’t want anything to do with me haha, and I don’t know if that’s why it got so intense for me. it’s so scary, I am scared I never will fall in love with a guy that I really know.