honestly same bc i second guess myself so much it sucks i bet i would like someone if i didn’t overthink ab it
Yeah literally same, I feel like I’m always forcing myself to feel something which eliminates the chance of me actually liking them
Same! And then when I do see a cute guy I always worry if now what I am feeling is me faking or forcing the feelings. Then it doesn't help that I have always wanted a boyfriend but I always felt like I was too awkward and anxious about doing anything with a guy. So, that has only made me think even more that how I have felt for guys in the past was me faking it or something.
Omg yes I feel the exact same way, I might just get a million cats instead just to avoid all of this 😭
@Melodyocd Honestly same. Whenever I worry about it I end up just saying well I guess I'll be alone forever except for my animals.
@Mak46 I literally have never had a relationship because of all of this, something always goes wrong or I panic
@Melodyocd Yeah same. In the past I went on a date with this one guy and I genuinely liked him and thought he was cute. But the thought of him kissing me or something suddenly made me super anxious even though afterwards I really thought about it and kind of wanted him to kiss me. Though now with so ocd it is making me think that was all fake.
@Mak46 Yeah and having never had a relationship before doesn't help