Its normal, from my own experience once I told people OCD made me anxious and said I'm not gay so now I need to tell everyone I'm not, that's when I knew it was OCD and not me actually being a lesbian or bisexual. You cant win with OCD, it will never be satisfied.
those thought have popped into my head too
totally normal. i used to confess to my partner 24/7 and i even tried to “come out” to my mom, which didnt alleviate any anxiety and gave me no clarity