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Once you have a worried thought that you are gay, what do you do next typically? What do you think right afterwards ?
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Think more? Figure out If I actually am or not, even though It feels like I just am somehow. Try to understand the feelings, or understand what the thoughts exactly mean or say. Deciphering them I guess. Theres alot of thoughts/feelings that follow up or happen at the same time tbh.
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@Imaan7 That's sounds very compulsory to me. Compulsions can be completely mental. General anxiety is different its really not about most hocd themes. Its worries about school, it's worries about the future, it's worried about sleep, it's worried about social settings, it's excessive worries about Financials, how people see you, There's overlap but it's not really about if ur gay or not. Listen, if ur gay u pretty much know you're gay. There's anxiety about coming out of the closet bc of family members and society and internalized homophobia, but you typically know. I'm bisexual . I made my dolls make out when I was 6, I had possessive feelings over some of my best girl friends, then at 14 I kissed a girl I loved it. I still didn't admit I was gay until about a year after that when I felt real feelings for the girl and wished we were together.
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@whatadooo If you have a intrusive though Ex "I think I'm gay" And then you start thinking more thoughts to try and dissuade or analyze it further till it "makes sense " or u can find comfort or find a conclusion. That's the compulsion.
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@whatadooo Im just worried that I have come to a conclusion, cant accept It and have Gad and not Ocd.
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Gad and ocd are strongly related and it's common that you'll have both of them together. Did it also take into account of mental compulsions? Not everyone is well educated about pure o
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It didnt, Im worried though that I dont have any mental compulsion either. I just dont know know If I do or not
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Haha, I was in the EXACT same boat as you a few months ago. Sucks, doesn’t it :(
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Regarding hocd? Ive seen people say that were questioning for a long time and had Gad, it feels like that Im like them
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@Imaan7 Yep, regarding HOCD
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@OCDumb >:( If it helps, I’m straight with homosexual ocd, as opposed to gay with straight ocd
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@OCDumb >:( Same, Im straight ( I think Idek at this point) with hocd. Wdym opposed? Straight people with hocd are more common than gay people with hocd
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@Imaan7 Mhm. I just wanted to clarify, haha
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Sometimes I think " do I like kids?" "Would i get aroused if I saw content with kids?""What if I'm a pedo and cant accept it?" "What if I'm ok with these thoughts?" "What if I'm not distressed enough " "What if I enjoy these thoughts?" , i avoid kids as much as i can, i cant look at them bc I'm scared I'm gonna have some groin like response. I keep testing if I'd get turned on or if I'd have some groinal response to sexual scenarios with kids. Sometimes I think that if I took my life this would be over and i wouldn't have to think about this and i wish i doubted something else instead of things like this. I had similar situations just with different topics such as if i loved or found sexually appealing a guy while in a relationship and i kept asking myself those questions for months and i avoided going to school for weeks and when I went I'd cry and have anxiety attacks. I had it with past actions i obessed over and felt the need to exploit every detail and be honest because otherwise i was being a fraud. I had it for sexual things that happened when i was a child. Im not diagnosed with ocd but should i tell this to my local counselor? Can someone help? Give me advice or tell me anything?
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Sorry long post. Anyone feel like now they’re just in extreme denial. Like when I was little I noticed guys more than girls in movies and was more drawn to them. I remember changing my mindset to switch that. 98%of my life has been straight until recently. I felt drawn to some guys but never thought of it sexually. Always had girl crushes dreams and porn. Now I watch porn and I feel like straight takes longer and then I go and watch gay porn and feel nothing until I tell myself it’s two attractive dudes and love is love and imagine physical sensations and then it hits like suddenly. Like I have to convince myself it’s alright. Then when I try again I can do all that but feel nothing and then straight porn works. Idk if it’s just getting a fix or the first time works with anything or what but it’s confusing. On top of that I’ve felt girl relationships including my wife maybe miss something and a guy maybe matches that feeling that but then I feel like I’d be missing something without a girl or my wife. Idk I’ve had some rough times in life with male figures in my life but idk. I feel like I have to convince myself more and more that I’m straight even more than the first time I dealt with this. Can someone relate? Please
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Hello there. I’m new here and think I may have OCD I’ve struggled with anxiety my whole life. However, in my early teens, I started experiencing obsessive fears and engaging in compulsions because my brain convinced me that if I didn’t perform a certain action a specific number of times, it would “prove” that I wanted something terrible to happen. When I was 17, I began seeing a therapist and opened up to her about this. She diagnosed me with Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD), and I accepted the diagnosis But last night, I became curious about whether people with GAD engage in compulsions and have specific fears, so I looked it up. I was shocked to learn that these are not typical characteristics of GAD Now, I would love to find a therapist who specializes in OCD so I can get a formal diagnosis and the appropriate treatment
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