Okay really big question. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over 2 years now. But gradually the stress of the rocd is starting to get to the relationship. It's getting to the point where the relationship just really isn't fun anymore. Every time I see her it's nothing but stress and trying to mitigate this stress. It's really hard for me to actually enjoy relationships like everyone else can. At this point, I don't think our relationship will last but I don't want to leave. It's gotten to the point where talking on the phone is too much stress for me. And sex? Forget it. I hardly ever want to do it for all of the reasons you'd expect. The only problem is, she's just so damn perfect. She and I just understand each other more than I've ever understood a woman in my entire life. More than I've ever been understood. I mean, I used to not give a whole shit about animals, but now every time I see an animal I just think of her and it makes me smile uncontrollably. Or I guess it used to. I just want to try and save this relationship. Can i? And if so, how can I save this?