yes this happens to me
Have you gotten over it?
@Acrasia no not yet
@jusme I’ll pray that we do, this is so tiring
@Acrasia me too 🙁
This also happens to me. Unfortunately with SO OCD it blurs my line in my memory between crush and infatuation and friendship. Did that person just want to be my friend? Did I just find that person really intriguing? Do I want to be like them? Etcétéra. What I try to do is say… “well, I won’t know for sure. And I’m not going to try to figure out why I’d think of those kinds of things w them, because it doesn’t matter.” And sit with the discomfort. Very difficult and takes PRACTICE but works. Basically an exposure.