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i feel kind of the same, with the suicidal/existential ocd. ive told a bunch of other people on here with the same problem that no youre probably not depressed, never were and never will be. ocd fears always leans up against your values, so in the case of suicidal ocd where you fear depression and suicide, its because youre a happy person, and you fear losing it! the existential stuff kind of goes hand in hand with it too, because the depressing existential intrusive thoughts usually also comes from a place of feeling the opposite, that life has purpose, meaning and magic in big amounts.
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All very true! Thank you so much for the post! One things that has really helped is the article titled “Choice” by Dr Stephen Phillipson. It has been a huge help in working towards recovery. Through this article I am coming to realize that being human means slogging thorough the mid with the rest of humanity. I understand that everyone has the exact same thoughts that I have, most people just don’t worry about them. They identify these thoughts as irrelevant and move on with their day. This is what I am presently working on and it seems to be helping. I am also learning to habituate to my triggers which is also spoken about in the article. That has also been helpful. I have combined these two practices with putting effort into getting good sleep, exercise, exposure to my themes, supplementing with vitamins and trying to eat somewhat healthy have also been a help.
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Also, it’s hard to tell if my feeling is a fear of my thoughts that is causing anxiety, or a truly depressed mood. I’ve never really considered myself a depressed person but maybe I have? I’m not sure. I’ve always been fairly outgoing and put spoken. Not always the most positive person but I like to make people laugh. Sometimes I joke too much and go a bit far and that in the past has lowered my mood because I realize that I need to tone it down a bit. Overall though I’ve always felt like I’ve had the normal ups and downs mood wise that everyone else has. So confused as to what’s happening.
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Honest to god I’ve been going through this for the past few years and it can be very scary
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For a few years!?!? How have you been dealing with it?
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This also turns into an existential thing for me as I’m always analyzing people, assuming certain people are most likely depressed, asking why are we here. This in turn makes me begin to feel like life is hard and I start to get annoyed easily. I feel almost like it comes down to how I am judging people, places, experiences and existence. But I truly don’t want to think about these things, I would much rather live a long happy healthy life in which I do not question these things.
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Yeah exercise is really good as well as meditation. I’m trying to stay off of meds because they scare me. I’m trying to supplement with vitamins which seems to work ok but is definitely not the perfect cure. It’s like every time I start to feel good, my mind says “yeah, you’re good until you’re not”. Then when I imagine what being “back to the normal me” would be like all I can think of is having this all reoccur and being less able to deal with it. It scares the hell out of me!
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Oh wow! Nice to know I’m not the only one. How long have you had ocd? Mine has been present off and on since high school when I had contamination ocd, fear of losing my family ocd and health ocd. Then it went pretty much dormant since I was 20-21. I’m 34 now with a family and I now have this terrible fear of killing my wife and little girl, both of whom I love with all of my soul! I also fear becoming depressed and/or killing myself . This has lead my mind down the existential road. Sorry if I am going on and on. Just trying to get a better road map of how to beat this and live a life less anxious.
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Honestly .... me too!! I have existential ocd and harm ocd So they feed off of eachother I honestly have just gotten used to the anxiety... but I’m going to start medicine soon and exercise. They say exercise is super benificial for your mind
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Haha that’s weird . We are like the exact same person!! Medication scares me too. I had a horrible experience a while back that made my OCD worse. I definitely think natural supplements are good and exercise that helps stretch your body and challenge your muscle strength. Weights are a good part of it. And change your diet too. Avoid processed sugar and bad carbs. Too much sugar sets off anxiety.
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Hey everyone, I wanted to come on here today to just share this post because I’ve been struggling with this recently. I just wanna know if this is a common thing in relationship OCD. So last Friday me and my boyfriend had a conversation that was important, and my emotions were high and I got a little emotional about something he said and we had a long talk about it, the conversation went great and afterwards everything was okay. On Saturday I was so excited to see him after work and I was overflowing with feelings of happiness and excitement. Sunday was great and we stayed on FaceTime just enjoying the day together after he went home that morning, and then came Monday. I remember getting a thought like this, “What if I’m losing feelings for him and I’m just leading him on?” And even this thought, “I don’t really feel anything towards him right now, does that mean I fell out of love with him?” And then the anxiety came, I could literally feel myself breaking out in cold sweats and I could feel the pain in my chest after these thoughts crossed my mind. But what bothers me so much about this is on Saturday and Sunday I felt so content and happy with him and I was so happy and I didn’t have any anxiety whatsoever, and then Monday came, and I had those thoughts and I feel almost numb and I can’t feel anything else except the feelings of worry and fear and my anxiety has been at a all-time high and I keep feeling this pain of guilt and hurt in my chest and I just wanted to know if anyone else has experienced the same. Because personally one thing I hate is that one day I can be so happy and energetic and then the next day I can feel numb and feel absolutely nothing towards my boyfriend. I’m not sure if this can correlate with my menstrual cycle as well, but I’ve heard that that can also make your relationship OCD worse and cause you to feel differently about your partner. Just wanting to see if anyone has dealt with the same!
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does anyone else with this theme feel like their suic. ocd skyrockets when something in your life happens?? i’ve been doing so good managing these thoughts and not panicking, but i had a event happen in my life and all of them are back hitting hard. i’m arguing with myself on whether im actually depressed or not and “what if this means my thoughts are real”, it’s all what if thoughts, but because ive been doing so good with them, what if they are real this time? like im panicking again because im scared they are real? like i’m not depressed im just going through a few things right now. idk what it is. but i really need tips on how to help with setbacks and what to do to stop myself from arguing with my mind when i already know the truth.
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Lately I just feel like I’m on the verge of losing it and I don’t know why. I feel so uncomfortable in my own body. Physically and mentally. Not due to insecurity but just that something isn’t right… I never feel good, I’m always fatigued, my head hurts all the time, but my blood work comes back fine so doctor’s will do nothing. I have anxiety and panic attacks and recently I guess depression since I’m always down. I have relationship OCD so my partner deals with me not being sure of him constantly and it breaks my heart. I don’t want to leave him because he’s great but half the time my brain is telling me he isn’t the one. I keep counting as well, constantly counting every letter in every word and every word in every sentence… it just feels like I’m gonna go insane one of these days and I’m scared. When I talk to someone about this, they have no clue what to tell me or how to help. Am I alone in feeling this way??
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