i am in the most healthy loving supportive relationship i have ever been in in my entire life and yet daily i question myself on so so so many different levels. do i really love him, does he really love me, am i faking it, am i aromantic, am i not attracted to men, am i just desperate for attention and validation and using him for that, etc etc etc. it’s so so exhausting and nerve-wracking and i’m so tired of it. i don’t know how to make it stop.

Relationship OCD

Sexual Orientation OCD

I share sooooo many of these feelings too! You aren’t alone 

I feel so many of these same thoughts. It’s exhausting!

I have had these thoughts so many times. Thank you for sharing. 

same here. I think “you are just staying because it is healthy. you don’t actually like him”