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Anonymous
13d ago
  • Relationship OCD
  • Sexual Orientation OCD

I'm so anxious, I just want to shut down and cry. My OCD has latched onto my partner's sexuality and forcing me to question if he's straight, bisexual, gay, etc. He won't give me reassurance about anything and my brain/OCD has woven it into he won't directly tell me because he isn't straight. It's agonizing. He has told me "I have nothing to worry about" when I compulsively asked him about it in the past, but I still can't pull myself away from this... I'm so miserable. I just want to get back to how I was before, I never questioned or second guessed much. I'm so stuck..

Anonymous
13d ago
Someone please help me..
Anonymous
13d ago
I'm so sorry you are experiencing so much anxiety. May I ask why you fear him being bisexual?
Anonymous
13d ago
I'm not entirely sure... I would support him if he did come out as anything other than straight because I love him so much, but the whole thing causes me so much anxiety. I think my ROCD has heavily played into this whole obsession..