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LoverGirl
12d ago
  • Relationship OCD
  • Sexual Orientation OCD

Really struggling here… when do things get easier

Whyyocd
12d ago
I’m asking myself the same thing :(
LoverGirl
12d ago
It’s so hard
Whyyocd
12d ago
@LoverGirl It really is :( did your relationship ocd come before or after SOOCD?
LoverGirl
12d ago
@Whyyocd My first intrusive thought was SOOCD and then I think it triggered ROCD. But it’s so annoying when I think I’m doing good and a theme no longer bothers me it switches back to the other theme. And back and forth.
Whyyocd
12d ago
@LoverGirl Literally same 😞 I’m not even sure if I have ROCD. My main theme that is literally torturing me is SOOCD. All I know is I never had questions about my relationship until this theme came :(
LoverGirl
12d ago
@Whyyocd Yea I really struggle with soocd. I just wish things were how they used to be
Whyyocd
12d ago
@LoverGirl Me too :(
LoverGirl
12d ago
How long have you been dealing with this?
Whyyocd
12d ago
Since the beginning of June. What about you?
LoverGirl
12d ago
Same here!!!!!!! It’s been the hardest months of my life
Whyyocd
12d ago
Honestly:( I literally believe that if I would’ve gotten a job during the summer then none of this would be happening. I was literally home all the time because of summer school. What was the intrusive thought that caused you to spiral?
Whyyocd
12d ago
@Whyyocd If you don’t mind me asking!
LoverGirl
12d ago
@Whyyocd I also think it was stress cause I had just started a new job! And the intrusive thought came when I was being intimate with my partner and then just spiraled from there
Whyyocd
12d ago
@LoverGirl Yeah I definitely think stress has a lot to do with a theme starting or spiking.
LoverGirl
12d ago
Yea it’s so hard because I’ve been with my bf for 8 years and he’s the one I want to marry but all of this makes me doubt everything and I hate it and I just don’t know if I’ll ever get my relationship back and feel like how I did before
Whyyocd
12d ago
Omg 🥺 I’m so sorry 🥺 I really hope you do! I feel the same. I have a boyfriend who I thought was going to be the one but after this theme it’s made me doubt everything as well. I hope we all can get back to the place we were before 🥺
LoverGirl
12d ago
@Whyyocd I’m sorry you’re also going through this. It’s nice to know that I’m not alone. I also hope that we can get that back