Hocd if u had sexual fantasies about same sex in the past is the worst thing…I had today an appointment with another ocd therapist. It was woman. I found her cuz my current therapist is man and I wanted to talk with woman cuz it's easier to talk with woman about sex things, but the meeting wasn't so good... I started to talk that I watched lesbian porn and she started to ask me if I was by sex therapist and ask me if I liked woman in the past. I think she thinks I am in denial. She said she had once a patient who had so-ocd, but he had no same sex fantasies. He was just afraid when he thought when a guy is handsome and thought that maybe it means that he is gay. But it's nothing to compare with me :-((((

I think it is more the way one suffers and obsesses and thinks like crazy to end this shocking change that defines ocd. even bisexual people can have so ocd (think they like now only one gender and usually the wrong, the one their partner is not). if you think that what happens is not you and feels alien and you lose your identity, it is ocd in my opinion, no denial.

No every person is the same. So many straight people on here like gay or lesbian porn. Don’t compare yourself

*not everyone

Hey, don’t worry. Im in the same situation, I had same sex fantasies, but also had a lot of other strange sex fantasies which I defenetely don’t want to do in a real life. So reality is that we have a choice to do whats right for us . Many heterosexual women find lesbian porn attractive and it’s normal.