Help please has anybody else been threw anything similar I’ve been with my girlfriend for about 3 years and she is the most amazing person in my life I couldn’t imagine my life without her but my ocd has latched onto this other girl that I used to have a crush on my head tells me that I like her more than my girlfriend and it feels so real me and my girlfriend went threw a rough patch at the start of the relationship where I broke up with her because things just didn’t seem right a lot of pointless arguing she was only 17 so maybe was a maturity thing but when we broke up I told my friend that I thought there was more of a spark with the other girl I had a crush on and that I thought she was more attractive well fast forward a month later and I got back with my girlfriend and it was amazing she completely changed no arguing she had matured a lot since the breakup and things were amazing I couldn’t have asked for anybody better I felt so lucky to have her and then the ocd started we were talking about trusting each other and that we would tell each other everything and that set me off I got the thought u need to tell her that you said that about that other girl and that u said you thought she was more attractive so I did not knowing it was ocd the next thought came that I had to tell her then the next then the next and now I’m stuck with the thought what if I do like that other girl more even tho I’ve been in the best relationship for 2 and a half years and haven’t seen the other girl in 3 years or even know anything about her just know that she is a pretty girl and I had a crush or liked her back then I just don’t want to think that I want to go back to when I didn’t have these thoughts and was so happily in love with my girlfriend talking about babies and getting married and living the rest of our life’s together anyway I think what I’m asking is has anybody else went threw rocd thinking they might like someone else or anything like that sorry for the long post hopefully somebody reply’s :(