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I do it too. Often times I try to find problems with my best friend or my parents or my sister and then try to guilt trip them. The bothersome part is Ik what I'm doing isn't right but I still do it.
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Yep! Guilt tripping is awful for yourself and others :/ I do it too but I try to keep it to myself because I recognize that it is ROCD talking in my head
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Omg I feel you so much and I'm so sorry we are all going through this but we can make it through!
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Yes am there
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Can you tell me more so I don't feel this lonely rn
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@positivityyyyy I suffer from this horrible thing Rocd is...its like my mind tries to find something bad to blame my husband for. I look for tiny details or even more profound small things to accuse him of things that may or may not have happened. I create my own scenarios, assumptions and some times they feel so true. I believe my Rocd many times and live a nightmare.A few hours ago I had a severe Rocd episode and still feel anxious and trembling...how long is it that you learnt you have it??
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@zoed When I learnt about OCD while I was in relationship with my previous boyfriend, I started to catch ROCD symptoms. It was about 2 years ago. But when I really, like really realized what thoughts are ROCD thoughts, it wasn't until maybe few months ago. I have been able to recognize what are ROCD thoughts and that way trying release them, but sometimes I still do struggle a lot and have terrible anxiety from time to time. And it feels so horrible when the thoughts that I have created out of the blue feel so real and then I just cry and my boyfriend asks why and I just can't say that "I think that you do this and this that make me feel sad" BECAUSE I just simply cannot turn off the assuming
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@positivityyyyy But I'm learning!
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Last night I was staying at my boyfriend’s house and couldn’t sleep. I felt like i desperately needed to go back to my parents and clean and organize my room. This has happened a few times before when I was staying at his place. Since then he’s been very upset with me. Does anyone else’s partner do this? Any advice? It’s been hard. He’s made me feel so shameful for having OCD. As if it’s not tough enough /:
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When my boyfriend and I are apart, it honestly feels like I've lost all feelings for him. I start questioning everything, wondering if I even love him at all. Then, when we're finally together again, the memory of those earlier doubts creeps in and completely ruins the moment. I get so caught up in overthinking and analyzing my feelings that I can't even enjoy being with him. It's like I'm constantly second-guessing myself. The worst part is, sometimes later, when we're still together, I do feel the love. But then the anxiety kicks in again! I start worrying that I'm just faking it because I had those doubts earlier in the day. It's this endless cycle of questioning, doubting, and overthinking, and it's exhausting. I'm really struggling to stay present when we're together, and it feels like this constant cycle is preventing me from truly connecting with him. We have been together for three years and we love together, and I just started feeling this way about a month ago; it’s been almost every day since. One day, I randomly thought about breaking up with him. Our relationship is healthy, especially compared to my previous toxic one, where I was anxiously attached for two and a half years. My boyfriend is very supportive of me. I have talked to him about my doubts and everything I’m experiencing, and he continues to support, care for, and help me through it all. I am very grateful for that. One aspect of my current relationship that I would like to improve is our communication, but we are both willing to work on it together. I often find that my overthinking leads me to question whether I really want to try to fix things or if I’d rather just continue as we are. This creates a constant push and pull in our relationship. Has anyone else experienced something similar? Any advice on how to break this cycle and just be present in the moment? I'd love to hear from anyone who's been through something like this.
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So recently i had really obsessive thoughts about something and once i got over it i kept bringing back more stuff to make myself feel like a bad person. Why am i doing this? Why do i need to look for something else to burden someone with once they have forgiven me
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