- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 3y
I’ve been captivated today by the fear that the world around me isn’t real. Did you ever experience that?
I’ve actually never experienced that, but I’ve heard of it several times! I’m pretty sure it falls under existential OCD. If you wanna elaborate more on the thoughts you’re having about it, feel free!
I’ve def felt that way. Sometimes I’ll look around and is this really real. Or what really is real? I notice it the most when I’m stuck in an OCD cycle constantly questioning everything!!
i have really scary harm ocd. do you have any tips for learning to cope with this?
I’ve never struggled with harm OCD but I can’t imagine how difficult it is to live with. First off, you have to always be compassionate towards yourself when you’re struggling with OCD. Treat yourself the way you would treat a struggling best friend. Also, anytime you feel the need to counter the harm OCD thoughts, remember that doing so is a compulsion and will always make the thoughts worse. Anytime you have intrusive thoughts, try to redirect your attention to your life, as difficult as that may be… and remember that no matter how scary your thoughts are, they don’t automatically tell you anything about the kind of person you are nor do they tell you how you may act. Thoughts can never be proof for or against anything, and having a terrible thought doesn’t automatically mean you will act on it!! So try your best to allow yourself to have these thoughts, they aren’t bad or bad, they’re just thoughts floating through your head at this moment in time. Hang in there, and know that you’re strong!!
Before you recovered how many hours per day have you been spending on compulsions?
This is a great question!! When my OCD themes were at their peak, I would say I would hardly spend any time not ruminating. So there were some days where I was giving into mental compulsions for more than half of the day… but generally, I would say I spent about 3 hours a day on compulsions
@xiiiandreww Thanks for your answer. That's the point were I started going crazy - 2-3h per day. Have you recovered on your own or with a therapist? Do you have any online resource/book or something similar that helped you the most? Something like reminder that you would use if your obsessions will strike again?
@Vesna I was actually able to recover on my own, but in most cases, having a therapist really helps with recovery because it provides you with a structured environment to do exposures. I haven’t used any books to help me recover but I know there are some very helpful ones! I hear great things about “how to stubbornly refuse to be miserable about anything” by Albert Ellis. Also, there are some great Instagram accounts that can give you important tips on dealing with your OCD like @obsessivelyeverafter and @pureochrissie as well. If you don’t have Instagram, just search up Chrissie Hodges on YouTube, she is extremely helpful and makes you feel less alone!! You may know her already but if you don’t, she is someone worth looking into :) also, if you ever have any other questions or need support, you can follow me on Instagram if you have one!
Have you ever had a thought so unsettling it stopped you in your tracks? That’s how postpartum OCD started for me, triggered by my grandfather’s passing. After he died, a terrifying question popped into my head—What if I’m not a good person? From that moment, I became afraid of my own thoughts. When I had my daughter, a new fear took over: What if I could hurt her? I avoided being alone with her and constantly sought reassurance, but nothing eased the panic—until I found NOCD and realized I had OCD. Therapy was terrifying, but learning to face my fears instead of running from them changed everything. One day, when I was alone with my daughter, the thoughts came, and I simply responded, Maybe I could. Maybe I couldn’t, and moved on. That’s when I knew I was getting better. OCD no longer controls my life—and if you’re struggling, know that recovery is possible. I’ll be live on the app around 6:00 PM CT answering any questions, so ask away!"
Just wanted to give some hope to those who are having ocd spikes, spirals and worries. This past year I have regained my life back. I went from beginning to isolate myself, being convinced by my ocd that my hobbies are bad and that I should avoid things I enjoyed, and having constant panic attacks. With the work of IOP, psychiatry and nocd, I have made great strives towards my future. I now don’t avoid things and instead embrace my life and ANY possibility that may come. Don’t let the ocd bully you. Yes, I have intrusive thoughts still but I am able to go about my day instead of obsessing over them. You can find this too. I encourage anyone on the fence to please seek help if you are in a tough time, it can literally save your life.
Hi all, I deal with HOCD and been seeing a therapist for about 3.5 months. It has definitely got better but still affects me very much. Was wondering there is anyone out there who has dealt with HOCD as well and has recovered. I would love to message or even chat just see how your experience was and hear what was beneficial to you.
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