- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 3y
I’ve been captivated today by the fear that the world around me isn’t real. Did you ever experience that?
I’ve actually never experienced that, but I’ve heard of it several times! I’m pretty sure it falls under existential OCD. If you wanna elaborate more on the thoughts you’re having about it, feel free!
I’ve def felt that way. Sometimes I’ll look around and is this really real. Or what really is real? I notice it the most when I’m stuck in an OCD cycle constantly questioning everything!!
i have really scary harm ocd. do you have any tips for learning to cope with this?
I’ve never struggled with harm OCD but I can’t imagine how difficult it is to live with. First off, you have to always be compassionate towards yourself when you’re struggling with OCD. Treat yourself the way you would treat a struggling best friend. Also, anytime you feel the need to counter the harm OCD thoughts, remember that doing so is a compulsion and will always make the thoughts worse. Anytime you have intrusive thoughts, try to redirect your attention to your life, as difficult as that may be… and remember that no matter how scary your thoughts are, they don’t automatically tell you anything about the kind of person you are nor do they tell you how you may act. Thoughts can never be proof for or against anything, and having a terrible thought doesn’t automatically mean you will act on it!! So try your best to allow yourself to have these thoughts, they aren’t bad or bad, they’re just thoughts floating through your head at this moment in time. Hang in there, and know that you’re strong!!
Before you recovered how many hours per day have you been spending on compulsions?
This is a great question!! When my OCD themes were at their peak, I would say I would hardly spend any time not ruminating. So there were some days where I was giving into mental compulsions for more than half of the day… but generally, I would say I spent about 3 hours a day on compulsions
@xiiiandreww Thanks for your answer. That's the point were I started going crazy - 2-3h per day. Have you recovered on your own or with a therapist? Do you have any online resource/book or something similar that helped you the most? Something like reminder that you would use if your obsessions will strike again?
@Vesna I was actually able to recover on my own, but in most cases, having a therapist really helps with recovery because it provides you with a structured environment to do exposures. I haven’t used any books to help me recover but I know there are some very helpful ones! I hear great things about “how to stubbornly refuse to be miserable about anything” by Albert Ellis. Also, there are some great Instagram accounts that can give you important tips on dealing with your OCD like @obsessivelyeverafter and @pureochrissie as well. If you don’t have Instagram, just search up Chrissie Hodges on YouTube, she is extremely helpful and makes you feel less alone!! You may know her already but if you don’t, she is someone worth looking into :) also, if you ever have any other questions or need support, you can follow me on Instagram if you have one!
Hi all, I deal with HOCD and been seeing a therapist for about 3.5 months. It has definitely got better but still affects me very much. Was wondering there is anyone out there who has dealt with HOCD as well and has recovered. I would love to message or even chat just see how your experience was and hear what was beneficial to you.
(Long read) hello everyone. i was out of the country for about 3-4 months and traveling. my ocd was not that bad at all and I was able to handle it even if it came up. on my way back home, it immediately started. i have learned how to handle it better, but i am more sad and just “awaiting” for something bad to happen. for example, i have sexual themed ocd. pocd and family related stuff, and also my ocd targeted my pets for about a year and it manifested into compulsions that disturbed me and made me not want to be around my cats. now that i am around my cats, i feel like “what if i harm them or do something bad?” or “what if you do those weird compulsions that happened before?” , when i look back on the compulsions that happened, it doesn’t feel like me and it was clearly driven by ocd, but it makes me worry i am just a sick person. i know myself and i know im not, but i had such a weird childhood and then ocd from 15 years old and up. so when these weird compulsions had happened , whether it was for the pet ocd theme or pocd or the family ocd, it feels like some sort of proof. anyways, i feel a bit for content with myself but i know how real ocd can feel and i just remember feeling so hopeless and suici da l, i just don’t want to go through that again. i take a more spiritual route of life and healing, and i wonder if anyone has some deep spiritual warmups or practices i could do to maybe open up my mind more? maybe to realize this is all in the mind? but also to not fight it… Not fight it meaning not let it take over my life. i racked up so much debt in therapy and i truly think i can get through this alone i just need a bit of help. but i dunno. any advice would help! thanks everyone ☀️
I haven’t done a Q&A in over a year (my bad) but I used to do these at least once a month. Work is slow today, so please send me any questions you have about OCD and I’ll answer them as best as I can. A little about me: I’ve been subclinical/recovered for going on 5 years and I’ve been on this app volunteering since 2019 in an unofficial capacity—I’m not connected to the NOCD team, so I don’t have any badges. I did ERP treatment with my therapist in-person while I was also being treated for PTSD. I have OCD, PTSD, ADHD, depression, GAD, social anxiety, driving anxiety, and a few speech impediments.
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