I need an interpretation. My ex left me for a week. Than after less than a week, he came back saying that he is soo sorry and he want me back. He made me felt really wanted again. A week passed and I saw him distancing himself; I asked and he said that he really want me and he didn't came back to leave me again. Today; after like 2 weeks, he said that he doesn't see a future with me, so he will never became my boyfriend again. BUT than, he said that he enjoy going out with me; and he want to keep date and hook up Me. I asked if it was because mabe he stopped liking me, or being attracted and he said no, that he likes me, even in that way. I asked him if it is because he doesn't want to now my problems because he didn't care, or because he had loose hope, nd he said that no, he will be there to listen to it, and also that he is sure that I will resolve them. He said that he still enjoys when he see me. He simply doesn't want to be my boyfriend. And he even wanted me to go out with him tonight. That make 0 sense for me. He want a future without me, staying with me without being committed to me! WTFFFF

Kick him to the curb! He is basically stringing you a long. If you let him get away with this, its a win win for him. He gets all the benefits of a relationship with out the committment of one. He basically just wants to use you. I agree with the previous poster. You deserve SO much better than this. This is not a healthy situation.

He needs to be binned!

But I don't want this... maby he can start to feel things again, he said that he would really want that! I fought so much against myself, again anxiety, again doubts i don't what to love everything

Okay i’m going to read this then reply

Wow. I’m sorry but girl you deserve so much better!!! Basically what he is saying is that he just wants access to you!! He wants to f*ck you, excuse my language and f others too, he can, because the label of bf and gf won’t be there. I’m sorry but boy bye 🙋‍♀️

He said that he can't imagine a future with me but he is really happy when he spend time with me. And at this point he think that being friends with benefit is the best thing because he doesn't want to stop seeing me; but also don't want anything serious

But i like him! And he is usually very good and mature! What if he has bad moments or doubts like mine... i have rocd, maby he could have it too?

No. Just no

So many red flags with what you have wrote, 🚩 “he said he can’t imagine a future with me” 🚩 “he thinks that being fwb is the best thing...he doesn’t want anything serious” 🚩 “he left and said he didn’t come back to leave me again”...he ended up doing just that by saying he no longer wants to be ur bf. I’m a very straight forward person and will tell u it how it is. No bullshitting around. He doesn’t want you. He no longer loves you, he only wants your body. He doesn’t care, he wants to use you. The sooner you face this harsh truth, the better

Cry, shout, scream, whatever u can do to get over this