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- 3y ago
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- 3y ago
Hi Tyler thanks for the reply! I have my assessment call tomorrow so I haven’t began any therapy yet. I’ve never been diagnosed with OCD but have struggled with Anxiety and intrusive thoughts over the 2.5 years. Mine hit in mid 2019 like 6 months before the wedding on a very turbulent flight while watching a horror movie and then the pandemic + having our first child in June 2021 it all adds up + work stress. I was on celexa since April 2019 and came off it once a few months after but then had more anxiety and went right back on it. So I stayed on it for since right after Our son was born and was fantastic until I had an anxiety attack a week before thanksgiving so I decided to go back on my celexa 5.5 weeks ago so it’s starting to provide relief.
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- 3y ago
Hey there! My name is Tyler Devine and I am one of the advocates here at NOCD. Let me start by saying I’m sorry you are having a rough time. OCD is a very, very debilitating area in the realm of mental health and anxiety disorders. However, we know this. Saying how hard it is and continuing to dig a deeper hole is not how you win this daily battle. Learning to face OCD head on is something that comes with time and practice. I’m not sure where you are in your journey with OCD, but let me give you some background on myself: I’m 27 years old and have been dealing with ocd since I was young. About five years ago, I finally surrendered to the monster that is OCD (particularly SO-OCD, which if you’re unfamiliar with some of the main subtypes of ocd, is obsessive thoughts, feelings etc of a sexual relation). Ever since then, I have never looked back. I know it’s tough but trust a vet like me who has put a lot of time into this stuff when I say you are far from alone. Some big things that helped me tame the beast and still do to this day are meditation, prayer, ERP (both staged and in real time), help from a specialist, faith, and medication (if necessary, as a supplement to your training). All these things combined with a positive attitude toward yourself and your OCD will lead you to victory! Keep helping others and keep utilizing the wonderful community of therapists and people who struggle with the same stuff like you and me. ERP is hard to do there’s no doubt about that. I always like to encourage people to do something fun and non-serious post therapy. Maybe go get your favorite food and watch your favorite funny movie! OCD training can get super serious (in your mind) so the goal to bring down the anxiety meter is to subtract being serious. Working out is great too, as long as you go into it with a clear mind and have fun with it! Strength and prayers, Tyler D
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- 16w ago
I’ve noticed that I’m somewhat happier also ignoring my thoughts than I am instead of doing compulsions (I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired atp) but I’ve heard you’re technically supposed to do erp rather than pushing under the rug. But idk if I have a thought I just refuse to think about it again and im fine even if I want to do compulsions
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- 11w ago
So you got to ask me anything… Now I’d like to ask you something! I’ve heard from Members that they were so scared coming to their first ERP session. They were terrified that I would think they were crazy, that I would tell them their worst fears were true. That I would confirm they are some form of a terrible person or have them hauled off to prison for their thoughts. I’ve also had Members share how they’re very scared to begin ERP treatment because they’ve researched enough to know it means facing the fear, without the compulsions that have kept them feeling safe (but not really safe) this entire time. They struggled to see how they could be capable of doing this, while simultaneously acknowledging that they did not want to live like this anymore. If you have had your first session, what were your thoughts before? Did you have any hesitations or fears going into it? How did it turn out? If you haven’t yet begun to work with an ERP specialist, what is holding you back?
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- 10w ago
Can I hear some examples of specific parts of ERP that has helped you? I've been doing talk therapy for a few years and the major issue I have with it is that I already have analyzed all of my problems from every angle, so I'm kind of just sitting there yapping about it for an hour. I need solutions and things that make me feel better.
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