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You don’t tell, you have to make peace with not knowing with 100% certainty...because NOTHING in life is 100% certain...just chalk it up to the “human experience” ya know? Like intrusive thoughts are just that, they’re random and weird and crazy, I still struggle with Pure O, but realizing this helped me a lot. Your brain is a random danger-sensing machine, Incest is a danger it senses so it’s trying to freak you out by imagining this danger and keeping you as far away from it as possible, but it’s going a bit far so just let the thoughts happen and don’t follow them, acknowledge that some deep part of you is just a scared uncivilized animal but a much MUCH shallower part is sure that it’s bullshit, try some meditation
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And remember MOST IMPORTANTLY accept that there’s some deep weird animal part of you that’s capable of gross weird shit...but literally everyone has that same part, they just don’t obsess about it as much, and while I’d say they’re more “healthy” than we currently are...it doesn’t make them better, the fact that we let these things bother us show how much empathy we have, like were probably much less likely to commit atrocities than an average person because of how vigilant we watch ourselves.... But that being said, it’s time to let cooler heads prevail, and trust ourselves more
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- 6y ago
Don’t give up keep praying and I will pray for happiness and peace in your life
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- 6y ago
I hope you feel better! There’s this mountain meditation that helps me out...check out the Anxiety Coaches Podcast episode called like “the mountain meditation” or something similar...it’s all about letting your thoughts pass without resistance, it’s VERY helpfull
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* since
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Thanks for the clarification
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Thank you
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- 6y ago
i have this ocd
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Pocd feels real again and I can’t tell if I’m actually attracted or not. can’t believe it got this bad again. I used to be able to go “no I don’t like that, go away” and now it feels like I do like it and want it, and it’s starting to linger longer so it feels more real. I’m avoiding checking but I’m so scared that what if it’s true. Is it because I have not been doing my exposures? I’m not sure, but every time a 14 year old person comes to my head, I keep hearing something go “they’re attractive” and it sounds like me so I panic, and it makes me even more scared because I’m not feeling bad about it??? I saw some kid at Walmart that had long black hair and my brain kept saying shit and no matter how much I say I don’t feel that way, it won’t shut up, i want to check 1000 times to make sure. But I know it’s not worth it. I’m trying so hard
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- 16w ago
Lately my OCD has been very horrible, it’s been more convincing than ever to the point where I’m genuinely convinced that I like this stuff, when I get a thought, I’ll hear my intrusive thoughts go “oooh, I like that, I’d do that.” and I just don’t freak out nor feel bad, I just feel like I like it even more, and feel like I would do/act on it and like it, and the feeling is strong and it lingers forever? It genuinely feels like I do, and I’m just lying now, i can’t tell if I make these thoughts worse or anything All I remember mostly just being like confused sometimes when these thoughts happen, but since I’m getting strong emotions that I like it, my brain says that means I did and I’m worried about that being true because I don’t understand nor know It’s like I am resisting to like this stuff now, it’s even tougher now than it was before
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- 10w ago
I keep getting these groinal responses when I think about kids or see one and it's really distressing, I only just learned that OCD can make you feel that and it's not actually attraction but it's so hard to remember that and I've seen people talking about accepting uncertainty but I'm so scared to think "maybe it's attraction maybe it's not" instead of "no it's not attraction that's disgusting" and idk what to do
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