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- Marjolaine
- Date posted
- 2y ago
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- LydiaKLydiaK
- Date posted
- 2y ago
How exactly was it your fault? I'm sorry for saying this about your husband but that pretty much makes him an asshole. There was literally no reason for this comment and he's obviously not sorry. Blaming it on the victim after bad-mouthing them (despite knowing their condition) is really toxic. I'm sorry this happened to you. If this is a constant occurrence, i suggest you communicate with him and if he still keeps on using the blame card without giving a single fuck about your perspective, it's better to leave this relationship.
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- zoedzoed
- Date posted
- 2y ago
You deserve love, you are loved, precious and you matter. Never let anyone steal your self worth and self love away. People should never make such rude and harsh comments on anyone. We are here to love and support each other not to break others' hearts. Please talk to him in a serious way and ask him what did he mean by saying that. Does he speak to you in this attitude all the time or it was something random? Do you feel loved and supported by your husband?
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- MarjolaineMarjolaine
- Date posted
- 2y ago
He is usually nice and doesn't mean to be nasty. But the problem is we cannot have a good conversation about feelings and my health without him going into mutism. I'm going with him at my next appointment with my psychiatrist so I hope it will make things a bit better
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- starboiklemstarboiklem
- Date posted
- 2y ago
What the hell is wrong with your husband like WTF
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- MarjolaineMarjolaine
- Date posted
- 2y ago
He's the cliché of the "man" ; I should stay strong, not have emotions,... And it makes him feel miserable, even if he doesn't want to say it loud
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- MarjolaineMarjolaine
- Date posted
- 2y ago
Thanks for your support. He is bad at being empathetic and can be easily overwhelmed with his anger. In many points I feel supported and loved by him, but I don't really feel secure sharing my emotions. My psychiatrist suggested we go together to the next appointment so I convinced (with difficulties) my husband to do so. Hope it will make things a little better.
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- LydiaKLydiaK
- Date posted
- 2y ago
Not being empathetic is no excuse for behavior though. My mom kinda sucks at empathy too but she tries her best to act as she should to others.
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- naquin0naquin0
- Date posted
- 2y ago
Please keep us updated
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- MarjolaineMarjolaine
- Date posted
- 2y ago
@naquin0 Sure. I find it very hard to confront harm OCD in this situation, and since it's the holidays here I'm keeping my daughter full time at home. I can sing 🎵under pressure 🎵 now 😂
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- 😤😤
- Date posted
- 2y ago
Ur husband sounds like a dick
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- naquin0naquin0
- Date posted
- 2y ago
It seems like he was wrong and he can’t take responsibility and because of the nature of OCD and the “hyper responsibility” that comes with it wants you to take responsibility because your “OCD” (in quotes because there could be more here) says it’s your fault. And it’s not.
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- naquin0naquin0
- Date posted
- 2y ago
It’s ok to be angry
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- Chellie
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- 5y ago
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- Chellie
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- Ariesgirl94
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My boyfriend and I got in a disagreement that triggered me to start having bad thoughts again and obviously couples argue. But in my head it's like " no couple should argue. Maybe it's not right" On top of that he's taking a trip back home for a week. & I keep thinking “ that’s too long. When he comes back you won’t like him anymore “
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