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Your worth is absolutely not defined by someone else’s incompatible life-schedule. Or by their lack of patience and understanding. This doesn’t reflect on who YOU are, but unfortunately you have to suffer because of it. I am SO so sorry you’re hurting tonite. Hold tight, Lindsey. Soon enough, you’ll turn around and realize how far you went with how much pain you were in and be amazed- but also reminded that you are ALWAYS stronger than you know. Always. And that you are on a journey that leads to one of the most important things of all- self fulfillment. Prioritizing what makes you feel like you’ve done what you needed to in your life. Leading your life how you know you were meant to. People who truly love you are always along for the ride, while growing themselves. You are loved and you are oh-so worth it.❤️
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- 6y
You want my advice? If you really want him back or even if you don’t want him back, cut contact with him. I mean absolutely 0. Delete all your social media for a while. Trust me I know what you are going through, when my ex girlfriend left me it completely shattered my existence. My mental health went to shit, I’ve been taking pills for anxiety and depression since that happened. A lot of people gave me advice, I was where you are right now. I couldn’t sleep, couldn’t eat, every single damn second I was thinking about her. I tried to see her and talk to her and sometimes she even gave me the chance to do so but it always ended in me feeling worse. She blocked me from literally everything, and only then I said “that’s it” and I haven’t spoke to her since. But want to know something? NOW, she unblocked from everything and likes my posts on Facebook and Instagram even though she’s not following me on either of them. If you really want a person back, just literally back off from them, or even if you don’t, keeping in contact and looking at their social media will be worse with how you are feeling. Trust me Lynn, I got my heart absolutely destroyed by that girl and I said to myself that I would never get over her and that I would miss her forever. Now I’m feeling good and she’s the one who’s apparently trying to get my attention, and I don’t feel the same way anymore. Trust me, you will heal with him or without him. Follow my advice, it’s easier said than done but I wish I would have done it sooner so I could have healed faster. I’m sending you all the love I could possibly send to you.
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Thank you so much. I wish I had people like you that lived close to me. I need friends so badly. :(
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I just talked on the phone with him. He said he’s not ready to delete our pictures on Facebook, I deactivated mine because I don’t wanna see the stuff. He says he loves me but he’s not happy. I asked if there was a chance we could ever get back together and he said “idk”. He said he just wants to be alone right now
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- 6y
I feel everything so deeply and strongly. My mind never stops. I have found some ways to distract myself but it’s still hard.
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She left me in August last year, She blocked me by thanksgiving last year. I got over her mid February this year and ironically my hocd started around that time. We were together for 3 years. You will heal, it takes time.
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I have deleted everything. I’m just going to leave him alone as hard as it will be, it’s what he said he wants. It means a lot that there’s so many caring people out there.. like just because I want a degree and don’t want children is why he leaves me. It just sucks. It sucks so bad. I tried my best to do everything right for him.
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I know what you’re feeling. So many plans I had with her gone to waste. All the sleepless nights, crying my soul out while she got drunk at bars with her friends. You will heal, it seems impossible right now as it felt to me but you will absolutely heal. I wish I could hug you right now because I know the pain that you’re in, it’s unbearable.
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I'm so sorry to hear that ?
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Of course❤️ I totally feel you, I don’t think I have a single really close best friend. Not anymore at least. Thank heavens for technology- I don’t know where I would be without it.
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I’m sorry you’re going through this. Can you throw on a comedy of some sort and just sip a warm cup of tea? It might distract you a tiny bit and get you through the evening.
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- 6y
I hope he can straighten out whatever he’s feeling so you don’t go through too much agony in the meantime. Try and get some rest so you can tackle the next day with a clear mind!
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- 6y
I can attest to that 100%. The intensity will lessen with time, I promise.
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How do I add an exposer?
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*exposure in my hierarchy
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I just wish he would come back to me.
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No, forget him. He doesn’t deserve you. I had the same with a girl, never again!
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- 22w
I’m just full of emotions right now. I feel like I just want to explode. I broke up with my ex a week ago he keeps texting me saying I love you I don’t respond because I don’t pay no mind. What’s bothering me is why did I let this dude use me and I trusted him. He manipulated and used me and I have serious trust issues I never tell anyone what I go through because it’s not safe at all. I feel like I don’t want to trust a guy ever again yes I’m 19 and I’m still young and should date but I don’t have the energy anymore. I attract terrible men that use me and I cave in to easy because I’m lonely and my life is miserable and even doing the things I used to like feel like a chore. I told my sister this today and she said I should be patient that the right man will come to me. But I feel like even if he did I would reject him because I’m an easy person to take advantage of.
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- 21w
My bf and I just broke up and I haven’t felt this sort of heartbreak in a very long time. I’m crying all the time and can barely get out of bed. Idek what to do with myself and I’m terrified I’m going to relapse because of all the added stress. I think us breaking up was the right decision but it hurts so fucking bad idek what i should do anymore. I’m not normally the emotional type when it comes to situations like this either. Any advice?
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- 20w
my grades are super bad, my ex moved on, i have no real friends at all, and i feel empty inside. i feel nothing but i feel so many emotions at the same time. i wish i would’ve done better in life. i push people away but then complain about being lonely. me and my ex broke up 8 months ago and i still can’t get over him. he got a girlfriend a week after our breakup and it makes me think about so many things. i’ve talked to guys after that but none of them are the same, i got this feeling with him i got with nobody else and it hurts to know i won’t ever get it back. i feel like im not good or pretty enough for anyone. i feel to difficult for a relationship and to tired. i compare myself to his new girlfriend all the time and i can’t stop. why can’t i be as pretty as her? what was so wrong with me that we had to stop talking? we talk every month as friends but it lasts an hour. my heart craves his love again but i know i won’t ever get him back. i remember this one time i tried cutting off all contact with him because of his girlfriend. when i did, he said he didn’t wanna fully let me go because im a good friend to keep around and he knows ill always be there. i don’t know if he still means that because it’s been months but he still texts me first sometimes. i know i need to let go but im stuck in life and i just need him to help me like he always would. but i cant get his help so i feel stuck and confused and sad and empty.
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